there's this girl name G and We hung out and did all kinds of things for 3 mon. all of a sudden the guy she was seeing found out about us sleeping together. now she has chosen to stay with him leaving me out in the cold. Does she really want him even though she was so happy with me?. Says she wants to work things out with him. So why does she still kiss me and talk to me. I don't know what to do, because I became close to her and I want her in my life with me, because i met her son and mother and friends and everyone liked me. What should I do?. Will she change her mind and come back to me? I need to know.
2007-10-24 05:49:39 · 13 answers · asked by JAMES A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt it. Obviously if she chose him once she has more of a connection with him. Maybe you are just someone for her to have fun with but the other guy is who she wants to settle down with. The best thing you can do is talk to her about and find out how she really feels. If she says she wants to be with him, back off. You are just going to get hurt.
2007-10-24 05:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James, James, James, Do you not hear yourself? Do you not see the red flags all over this relationship? Seriously, do you really want a girl who acts like this? She has a son?!!!! Man do I feel bad for her kid. She cannot make up her mind and she has WAY to many issues and baggage. I suggest that you forget this girl and move on with your life. Remember, as a man your odds are better in finding Mrs. Right, as there is more percentage of women to men in this country. So, you have a right to be a bit choosey XD.
2007-10-24 12:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an idiot? She was already with somebody else when you two started your fling. And she has kids already-how pathetic. Of course there is no husband.
You two are obviously too old to be playing these games. Find someone that isnt already attached with someone else and dosent sleep around. You will be much happier that way.
2007-10-24 12:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!..you knew she had someone else?
I could see if you didn't, but you should just move on because it's not worth staying in this situation. It's a heartbreak game.
2007-10-24 12:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by L M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.. u hv to give her time... thts wat all girls want... when they r confused on who they want to be w/...... it seems tht shes only confused @ the moment.....tell her how u rlly feel.... and even though it´s going to hurt u... .... tell her tht if she is going to be w/ the other guy tht she doens´t kiss u.... bc ur going to end up lk looking lk the other man in the relationship.... and u might get in trouble w/ the other guy....... it´s just a matter of time....
2007-10-24 12:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she keeps on going back to you, she must still want you, or some of you. lol. but the thing is, ask her, what does she want the most.
2007-10-24 12:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by brens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you. Get out and find yourself a nice girl that will appreciate you. :)
2007-10-24 12:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by hot06tc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was just using you, she doesn't want to be with you, or she would have left the guy in the first place.
2007-10-24 12:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by cjtk52905 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say you can do better than him, you can have me, or something sappy like that, basically just tell her that you want her, but y do you want a torn cheater anyhow?
2007-10-24 12:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better than that ****.
dont be messed around, find sumone who wants you..and deffinately you
xx
2007-10-24 12:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by hay;ley o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋