Relationship Advice?

Question

Lets say you have a girlfriend who is perceived by low-life jealous men to be popular. You (the boyfriend) are above or better than these low life jealous men. However, these men try to steal your girlfriend off of you. After about a year or so one of these men succeeds, and your girlfriend cheats on you with one of them, while you are away working long hours. However, your girlfriend keeps it a secret from you. About a month passes, and your girlfriend keeps cheating and becomes distant from you. Then one night, she doens't come home as she is out at a bar with this man. You call her and she finally answers. She tells you that she is not happy, and that she needs a break from you. She then breaks it off with you. This scenario happend to me 2 weeks ago. I got all of my belongings, moved out, and dropped her as it is apparent that she has no respect for me. I mean obviously she wasn't happy, but I never cheated on her, disrespected her, or abused her. I just need advice basically???

Answer 1

you made a great move, but a definitely hard move, it will hurt, but good riddings, i am sorry that you ended up in this mess,but what you could have done is ask the girl once you found out.so the best thing to do, will be to never call, never answer her phone call, spend more time with the guys, try not to spend too much time alone, and if you drink try not to get too drunk, that you end up calling her at night.tell everyday when you wake up, that she dont deserve someone like you.she will regret it, believe me, and will want you back, but never go back.

Answer 2

this girl is obviously a low life just like the guys. get over her. fast. find another girl to go out with, one who doesnt treat you like low life scum.
xox

Answer 3

I say you did the right thing. Cheaters do not respect you and do not love you, and no matter what it feels like now, you're better off.