help me my current girlfriend is marrying another guy, we lost commnication for like 2 months without any reason, the last time we spoked everything is ok and i didnt hear anything from her again after. when a friend of mine saw her cuzin her cuzin told my friend she is getting maried this january, i dont know if she was forced or she really wanted that, i tried contacting her but everything didnt work. what should i do? i wanna die.
2007-10-24 01:41:42 · 31 answers · asked by anthony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, on that two months we barely talked she told me she has a family problem and needed sometime and after that her phone is not working and i also tried emails and other stuffs but she didnt reply. the last time we talked was 3 weeks ago which is everything is ok i even asked her if she wants to continue and she saud yes, she even told me i missed you and i'll see you in a week but it already passed. and i confirmed she is really getting married. i'm so fckd. thank you for your help. i wish i die tonight.
2007-10-24 12:51:29 · update #1
Dude, You don't know how lucky you are.
It's plain to see that she was sneaking around with this other guy.
You got no respect from her. She was using you. Count yourself lucky. This other guy is the loser. He's the one going to bed with her knowing you were there first.
Next time you see him ask him how he likes used stuff?
Think about it... you get the last laugh.
Find yourself a good gal that will not cheat.
2007-10-24 01:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Nigel8ball 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, she's not your current gf sweetheart. Whether or not she's being "forced", she is marrying someone else. If she wanted to let you know or make contact with you as much you wanted to with her, she would have done so already.
You got to man up and realize what has happened. The quicker you do that, the quicker you can move on. Wish her the best in life and leave it at that. If you want to be super-storybook about it, write her a letter and get it to her thru a cousin or someone in her family who likes you. Tell her you love her, you want to be with her, and you will wait x amount of days for her to meet you in a special location. If she neglects to come, she wasnt the one.
2007-10-24 01:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh. If you didn't talk for 2 months without a reason, and then you didn't see her again after that; one of you two or both are obviously not making any attempt at contact. She doesn't want you, bro. Sorry.
2007-10-24 01:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by part deux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you tempted to pull one of those "wedding crashing" type of maneuvers to try to win your love back? Because if you are, you should realize that though they are pretty cliche (and the stuff of romance movie legends), that may well represent the last chance you're going to get. Beyond that, game over. There's a lot you need to know and soon. Good luck to you.
2007-10-24 02:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m so sorry to hear that, during the 2 months, why don't contact her and ask her why she stop talking to u?
call her up now see find out why she wants to get married. And my friend dying is not the situation to solve yr problem
2007-10-24 01:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by mystic m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you find out the truth then take action. If this girl is going to marry another guy just let go and move on with your life. There are plenty of other girls out there.
2007-10-24 01:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hirise bill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 months without talking.. thats no relationship. Chances are she didn't have the balls to leave you and has been seeing someone else and is now marrying him. Get yourself a new girlfriend mate! if you went 2 months without her then you will manage just fine without her, i promise. good luck.
2007-10-24 01:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if shes your current girlfriend, that why did you jut stop talking for 2 months? It sounds a little wierd to me.........give her a call and ask her whats up.....but you did not speakfor quite a while.
Good luck....and even though its hard, its NOT the end of the world.
2007-10-24 01:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by I love my sailor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your current girlfriend, but you don't see or talk to her for long periods of time? You should've stayed in touch somehow if this was your girlfriend.You can't email her? text message her? Send her a snail mail card?
2007-10-24 01:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 months? that sounds like a break up to me..how can everything be good without contact for 2 months? no wonder she moved on. geesh.
2007-10-24 01:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋