Im not particularly ugly, in fact i have quite a good-looking face and am well built and 6'3 tall. Im goinn a bit bald tho. Im 26 and never had a proper girlfriend shall i jus go up to them and tell them i think they are hot. My first kinda girlfriend but not official, i used to tell her she was beautiful and then touch and kiss her but after a few months she was like 'im not' and 'find somone else' 'i dont like compliments'. We stopped talkin then. It made me sad. She did have a boyfriend who she said she'd leave for me but she never did. I know how to chat to girls but now am scared to tell them they are gorgeous coz they might not want to hear it and its kinda crossin the line into wantin sex then isnt it, like sayin your sexy! Shall i just keep telling them they're beautiful then ask for a date then say it again on the date and stroke their hair and try to kiss em. Boom then im in, yeah. I guess i just want to know in the dating game is it good to give lots of compliments?
2007-10-24 00:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to get ANY girl is to talk to them. Be amusing and interesting. Compliments are cool, but don't overdo it. Kissing comes a while later, and depending on when you're touching them, (stroking their hair and trying to kiss them), you may be trying way too soon which will turn off any girl.
2007-10-24 00:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, girls like compliments...but they take different compliments in different ways. for example, my man told me the other night (while in candlelight) " ok, youre hot, but youre irresistable in candlelight" that was ok because he's my man, if he wouldve been someone i didnt know that well, i wouldve probably taken it as a lame attempt to get into my pants...its ok to tell a girl that you dont know so well that you think she is pretty, that you like her hair, that you think her smile is beautiful, etc...i wouldnt suggest walking up to a girl and saying damn mama youre so sexy, cause then you sound like a pervert...also, i wouldnt suggest pursuing a girl just based on looks, she probably gets that all the time, and there are sssoooo many hot people out there that you should wait till you meet one with a good personality too
2007-10-24 00:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by renee-nay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no official rules in the "dating game".
most women like compliments, but they also like to hear the truth.
you'll always have to start new, finding out what she likes or likes not, and you'll never know if she's in for you till she says she is, or she is not.
just my personal view, but I'm really fed up with the guys claiming "I want a sexy / attractive/ Hot girlfriend!".
2007-10-24 00:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nova 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, buck up on your confidence level and get a body like mine and confront her in a gentleman way. Acknowledge her and compliment her and ask her if she'd like to get together for the dance/party.....you know the drill.
2007-10-24 00:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women always enjoy compliments. Just don't overdue it.
2007-10-24 03:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by luvbev2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy one
2007-10-24 00:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being shallow?
2007-10-24 00:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember to be picky, not shallow
2007-10-24 00:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by bumblemancan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋