I use to really like this guy and he knew about ti but was to shy. (Well thats what his friends said) Then we sort of drifted apart but we still texted each other then he stop. I found out he had a girlfriend and that proberly why he didnt text me back.
Then when he spilt with his girlfriend he started testing me asking how I was etc...... then he got back with his girlfriend and the communication stopped again.
I always promise myself that if he text me that I woudnt text him back. But yesturday after 3 months I get a text out the blue off him saying "Hiya, howz you? Not spoke to you in ages"
I havent text back, should I????
2007-10-23 22:46:06 · 18 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont text him back.
u r just an option in his life
so dont make him your priority......
be dignified gal!!!!!!
2007-10-23 22:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by aceneelam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes text him back, but make him work for it. Text "I'm a bit busy at the moment get back to you later"
Do that 2 or 3 times, then start texting normally.
2007-10-24 05:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Itchy1977 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No don't bother texting him back, it looks like you are chasing up after him all the time while he is just stringing you along, play VERY hard to get, that'll teach him and if he REALLY likes you he will make a major effort to get to know you, meet you etc, if he's mucking you about he won't bother when he realises you ain't taking his s***.
2007-10-24 06:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes text back let him know you are cool and nice to hear off him , if he says anything of his girlfriend just ignore it and ask something else ...treat him mean it keeps him keen , or text and say cant text you properly at the moment , buey ill get back to you again !! ..makes it that you like him texting but hes notthe most important contact on your phone ...but realistically i wouldnt bother with him anyway ..hes using you as a feel good ...so use him the same way ..be a strong lady xx
2007-10-24 05:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by j.j. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's interested but only when his girlfriend's off the scene. Don't text him back but if he keeps texting you, tell him that you feel that he's using you and your friendship when he finds himself on his own.
2007-10-24 06:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what..I have to tell you that he is just fond of you but not really interested in you, see, you don't want to serve as the pawn or reserve seat there...don't even misinterpret his actions, he is just trying to be nice ok???let this register in your mind, don't allow him to use u okay?,if u have to answer his text, just do it simple, not warm and inviting..be careful and be more assertive ok? guys can be tricky you know..try to discern that well!!!in this world, there are only two kinds of people...one who uses and one who allows people to use them..don't either be of the two................see this is the problem y many fool because those who are fooled give them the opportunity to fool, put him in his proper place..............cheer up and chin up, you are still a winner!!!ah that loser !
2007-10-24 05:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me hes keeping you just where he wants you, everytime something happens with him and his girlf he gets in contact with you a think theres a word for this kind of guy USER!! Id think very carefully bout before you pick up with him again he will probably end up going back to his girlf
2007-10-24 05:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweetie u need to wake up, dont text him back, ok. u r not some kind of a rag or a barbie doll that he can turn to anytime his gf breaks up with him, i guess u love urself very much and dont want to get hurt.
2007-10-24 06:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't text back, it sounds like he's using you. Shyness isn't an excuse for rudeness.
Find someone better :o)
2007-10-24 05:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lolly ™ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No harm in a text message...just something simple like a 'yup' or 'hey' and see what happens; if, he gets back to you or not.
2007-10-24 05:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by skinwalker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
text him back and say a friend wouldn't keep dropping out of your life, they stay in contact.
2007-10-24 05:49:46 · answer #11 · answered by Linda S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋