Why do most of the parents scold to their children often ?

Answer 1

Either out of frustration, or it's their way of punishing. I personally like a calm and quiet home, yelling brings out to much stress. I do believe in consequences such as spankings, because I know the importance of discipline, and consequences. I don't think yelling does much good.

Answer 2

Parent Scolding Child

Answer 3

you should relish that feeling. Sounds nutty, but, when your parents love you, they take the time and effort to discipline and teach you so you can become a healthy productive member of society. Same goes for the discipline you get at school, cause guess what, it's gonna happen on the job. If you can't handle correction now, how are you gonna handle it on the job without gettin yourself fired over something really stupid? Granted, some people are more independent than others. Maybe you are just gettin to the age where you are wanting to leave the nest and be on your own. Well, that's normal, just hang in there, your time is coming soon. And you do need to enjoy your youth, so go ahead and jump on that Harley and go have some fun, but don't do anything stupid like fly down the road 90 miles an hour without a helmet unless you are suicidal. If you are already an adult and out of your parents house, maybe the pressures of life are just gettin to you. Take a vacation, do something fun. If you hate your job, start job hunting for something different.

Answer 4

I think parents often forget what it was like to be a kid, and they take things way too seriously. For example, scolding a kid for spilling milk.... what's that going to achieve... it was an accident and the kid probably feels stupid enough already.
Sure sometimes it is necessarily but some parents just need to take a step back, look at the big picture and remember that having a child should be a blessing not a pain in the ***

Answer 5

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Why do most of the parents scold to their children often ?

Answer 6

Same reason wives nag their husbands, husbands tune out to their wives, people in the office gossip, etc, etc. We're all human. Kids take a long time to learn right from wrong, how to avoid irritating their parents, and to actually remember all those things before they've already done it. Parents are nearly always tired and usually worried about something. No one can be in a good mood all the time. Who likes kids with overly permissive parents? If you don't train them, they grow up to be selfish and completely lacking in respect for everyone else around them. You also have to remember that you are usually seeing families at times of stress, like in shopping centres. I'll bet there's a lot less scolding going on when everyone is relaxed and mooching around at home.

Answer 7

Most parents thought that scolding their child are the great way to disciple and ruled their children, without knowing the other possible outcome of this act. It is also an expression of their inner hatred to someone ( or to your father ) and your just and shock absorber - outlet. Another thing, their childchood experience, doing thing to their child unconscious of the same experience they've undergone through out their being child.

Answer 8

scolding is the last recourse of parents to defiant children. Different approaches were done by parents to get chi;dren's attention but they remained tolerant and defiant. therefore scolding would be their last. But scolding is correcting and putting a child in a right position for he needs to be guided and corrected. Parents love their kids so much that they would do corrective measure to mold him into a better person in the future . (take note....when parents scold their children and hurt their feeling, they are hurt too,more than they are)

Answer 9

Parents scold their children so often because they love their children so much. If your parents don't love you, they'll not scold you and let you do whatever you want although they know that it's wrong. You know why your parents scold you but they don't scold your friend although both of you are doing the mistake? Cause they love and care you more than they love your friend, and they want to make sure that you are not going to do the same mistake again. And if your parents start to let you do whatever you want, beware, maybe they don't love you anymore.....

Answer 10

you need to find a balance that is right for the child, some children are better behaved than others, Although its said children that are told off often get so used to it they dont care! Its better for a child to try and get attention from praise, imagine the only time a parent pays you attention is when they shout at you, so you except thats better than nothing, thats quite sad. I think people who scream in public for hardly any real reason look worse than the misbehaving child! (But that doesnt mean if your child is being really naughty you shouldnt do so)