i want my ex back, i'm still in love with him. we broke up in may but i see him at school (college) just about everyday. i'm a virgin but i kind of want to have sex with him. do you think if i asked him to take my virginity he would do it...even if it had to be no strings attached...what do you think?
2007-10-23 14:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your virginity is something a lot of girls still wish they had.
It makes you an "A lister".
You may not be rich, a genius, or look like Megan Fox, but you have an important asset.
2007-10-23 14:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What if he does and you end up pregnant and he dumps you?
What if he just uses you for sex and you get dumped later and the only reason guys ask you out afterwards is for sex?
Do you want to have the reputation of an easy whore?
Thats what would happen hon.
The heart ache you'd endure after losing your virginity then being dumped would be hard ,especially while trying to pass your courses.
You sound like you are very desperate.Dont be, get your mind on something esle and work hard to pass and make the best grades you can.You will meet the right guy and how do you think that "right guy" will feel knowing you saved yourself for him?
You broke up for a reason a happy compaitible couple doesnt break up, they get married.You are better off even though you dont see it now.
2007-10-23 21:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, if you are still in love with him then how could you be with him with no strings attached?
I've tried to convince myself something similar a while ago with a ex whom I really loved. I ended up trying to do the friends with benefits thing and it was horribly painful because the whole time I was hoping we would get back together.
You only loose "it" once. I think you should wait until you find someone who feels the same way about you that you do for them. While I am sure he would say yes if you asked him... I suggest waiting because your first time should be special - not with no strings attached. Most importantly, you don't want to give him the privledge of being with you first if he's only going to hurt you later if your emotions get involved. Besides if you really want him back, he should get back with you because he wants to be with you for more than just physical reasons.
Just be paitent... the wait will be worth it! Good luck! :)
2007-10-23 21:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by DarlingNicki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes a man ofcourse he will do it but why did you break up , is he really worth it. I say save yourself for a few months . Could it just be that holiday time is coming up and you are feeling lonley and you figure if you give him sex he will get back with you, well it rearly works TRUST ME!!! Forget it just calm down , think about why you broke up and when the issue were that caused it,
2007-10-23 21:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by rxing 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there is a lot of missing information such as why did you break up? But I'm just going to answer based on the information in you question. I think he would take your virginity if you asked. Why wouldn't he? Thats easy sex for him. I say forget about him. Please Please move on. You are worth so much more. Hold on to that precious gift to someone that is well worth it.
2007-10-23 21:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Camille C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl Dont be Dumb! You know what you talking about?Why would you wanna have sex with someone your not even attached to?I aint lecturing but i just dont get why girls dont wanna save it for the right guy?Because trust me it WILL BE WORTH IT!! no lie but if you wait for the right guy you will be happy that you did and girl its gonna be the worlds most GREATEST feeling ever!TRUST ME! i wont want your bad sweety.
So please wait for the right guy and im sure that will happen soon if not just know that you will meet him some day : )
2007-10-23 21:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should keep your virginity and forget about him. You know there will be strings attached... and what happens if you get pregnant?
2007-10-23 21:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
R u for safe sex... lol ask the guy personally it feels better for a guy if its the girls first tim i've taken away three from girls(virginiteis ) you may call my crazy but i love women and they love me unless the guy isn't for stuff like that he ain't for you
2007-10-23 21:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by neon goose 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I don't think. There is a reason you two broke up. Go over that reason again. Don't jump to conclusions. You should try to be friends. Then ask him. But going up to him would be called harassment...
2007-10-23 21:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by sparkle_sticks_101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No Waite until he likes you back.
2007-10-23 21:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋