Is it stupid that I don't know what some of these terms mean? My two friends were over here one time and they were joking about girls and using slang (which I won't repeat on here) that involved sexual references, and when I told them I didn't know what some of these terms were supposed to mean, they laughed at me. They also said a girl would think I was a geek for not knowing.
I mean, I guess my sense of humor is more G-rated than theirs. I don't like to joke around about things like that. Do girls think it's stupid if a guy doesn't know every sexual slang term in the book?
2007-10-23 13:36:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's kinda sexy. The norm is that men know all the slang, which makes them look like pigs. You convey a bit of innocence, which is nice, if not appealing.
2007-10-23 13:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Opal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They're inventing new slang terms all the time. If you don't know what they mean, then 90% of the time you can Google it. I just type "meaning slang-term" in the search bar and it usually comes up with some dictionary definitions if they exist. You shouldn't feel stupid for not knowing. Learning is part of the growth process. No girl is going to laugh at you for not knowing something. She might even find it cute.
2016-04-10 00:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual "slang" is overrated. They probably don't even know much about sex, they just took advantage of you in a vulnerable situation. I think it's awesome you didn't pretend to know what those words meant! Some people act like they know lots about sex and sexual talk, when in reality, they have no idea and they're just trying to impress their friends. Girls will love it if you are honest about how innocent you really are - that makes them worry much less about how you're feeling toward them. Trust me, most girls are so self conscious, they don't have time to worry about sexual "slang" you're not familiar with. Just be yourself.
2007-10-23 13:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by *longhorns girl* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now listen up. im a girl and if any guy who wanted to go out with me or any of my friends used that kind of slang we would all say NO cuz none of us want to go out with someone who we think is perverted! it's better if you didnt learn them because girls don't like people who know or use sexual slang or terms because it's just a lil' bit PERVERTED! And that other guy was right, we would rather date gentlemen instead of people who use sexual terms and/or cuss. hope this helps!
2007-10-23 13:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Abbey F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not stupid that you don't know something. Everyone is born a blank slate and learns through experience. You just haven't learned those words yet. I would venture to say your friends may not know the full meaning of those words yet either.
Don't be embarrassed, you'll learn that stuff as time and experience pass.
Frankly, most girls would rather it be called a vagina than a pu***, though sometimes when talking dirty...
2007-10-23 13:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a females point of view - no. These guys who know a lot of sexual slangs would only make me think sex was all they were interested in.
2007-10-23 13:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theyre just joking around like lads do. i dont know many of these slang terms, and to be honest does it matter? as long as i know how to treat a girl, all the vocab in the world couldnt mask what actions can do.
2007-10-23 13:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not a bad thing at all! Chances are at least one of the boys laughing and using the terms did not know what they ment either.
2007-10-23 13:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amber D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone (male and female alike) just want to be treated with respect and genuine interest. Never have been one to go along with the 'crowd' or their opinions. You do what is best for you and you will probably find a far superior someone who recognizes your individuality - social 'cool' or not. Do not be afraid to be yourself. Lead OTHERS, don't be led.
2007-10-23 13:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by legal aide 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all who care if u dont know im 17 i dont even know all the trems yet ither crazy i know but who care i dont care what ppl think about and for 1 if a girl is going to think ur a geek becasue u dont know aobut sex treams then they r jsut to much of a bi**ch u know u so just dont bother careing and if u feel bad that u odnt know what they mean jsut pretend u know make it look funny even thoe its not
2007-10-23 13:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Leah D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋