i have noticed on this answers that anyone who is disabled or asks advice for a disabled friend. relative etc,etc, there are nasty replies, why? at the end of the day it is not no ones fault about being disabled and i think people should keep rude comments to themselves as it easily offends.
2007-10-23 11:12:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
completely agree, some people should walk a mile in another persons shoes before calling.. my partner has one arm.. after a motorbike accident (he is a walking miracle, he should be dead)... he is also an ex para and a ex bodyguard.. i would love to see some of these people air their nasty petty, so called 'funny' comments to his face!!! ...makes me mad... good question have a star..x
2007-10-23 11:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by izo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with all the answers so far, they should just get a life, but this isn't really the best situation here either. People get points just to say whatever they want, even if it's rude or unsensitive or whatever. If they come across something they don't understand, they'll probably just be nasty for the hell of it, and yay, two more points.
Maybe if Yahoo answers changed their policy and made sure that users who were reported as saying nasty things, lost points (get two for a question, lose three if your answer is reported as rude - and I don't mean just thumb down), then it might help and people wouldn't just answer any question just to get points.
Thanks for standing up, I'm giving you a star for this!
PS: Doctor Simon, no offense, you have a good theory there but I'm lonely and not happy with my life either, but why would that be a reason to bring other people down? Maybe it's just me but I actually feel better knowing I've been able to help someone. Just confused now how you came to that theory, also since it might explain the kids that used to bully me at school (they seemed to be rather popular and happy to me, they just seemed to find it fun to bring me down). Please explain it for me? Thank you.
2007-10-24 08:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by slashgirl_1984 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God bless you.
If only the world was that simple.
The Internet is a place where people can hide their true identities and attack people to vent their own frustrations, inadequacies or anger.
When you use sites like Yahoo Answers it full of really nice intelligent people, but now and then you do get the 'idiots' and there is not much we can do about that.
People that are insulting and attack those on the Internet are usually very lonely and angry individuals, dissatisfied with their own lives and full of resentment, they seek 'balance' by trying to upset others.
Don't let these people bother you - hold your head high, rise above it and walk away - you are the stronger person.
2007-10-23 22:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree. Most people would do this to get a response from others. It's a similar situation to that immature kid in school that won't stop throwing stuff at you. He just wants to get a rise out of others. I am always disappointed, but not suprised, when people would degrade or belittle another human being because they didn't fit in the mold they came from.
2007-10-23 11:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some people have very little ability and or willingness to empathies with other peoples problems
so as they probably whing about things they assume that a problem of others is just a whing when they cant relate to it as they are thinking of themselves and can not understand that others have problems
2007-10-23 11:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by gerrard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very well said,, i now a few disabled ppl and they have a heart of gold and what ever thay have suffered they still have a smile for you.
as for ppl thy are rude to disabled ppl there the ones that have issues because they dont understand tht there re all walks of life on this earth and can't deal with that and so they try and laugh it off with insults,, i fill pitty and sadness for those,,shame on thwm all..
2007-10-23 11:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by glen w 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
People who are nasty have no friends and this is their way of getting back at the world they think hates them because, they hate themselves.
2007-10-23 11:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by ADRIAN H 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 07:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well said I agree with you ,perhaps some of these crabby people may be disabled one day and not be able to work then they may realise it is no fun and not a self inflicted condition
2007-10-23 11:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
And the meek shall inherit the earth----a quotation you no doubt recognise. Therefore---its the ignorant bullies---those sadistic people---who have list their way---and just dont understand the meaning of life
2007-10-23 11:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋