well today i was talking to my boyfriend on the bus, and he said he could not focus on he schoo work, and i asked him why. he said, cause i was thinking about you. but yestreday i was thinking abot braking up with him. i dont know why thought! i love him so much! but i wonder if it is because of my peroid. but i dont know if i should really brake up with him? i mean, i am 13, and i know i will have many bfs, but i really love this boy! he is my frist really love. plz dont say i am not in love, cause you dont know me, and i am tired of the age dicrimanation! so plz help me b4 i make a bigest mistake of my young life!!!!
2007-10-23 10:45:45 · 56 answers · asked by BabyK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL YOU ARE 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT YOU DO!! OK????????? YOU ARE 13!!!!!! YOU ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO THISWOLRD!!! YOU ARE JUST 13!!!! JUST DONT GET PREGNANT AND MAYBE YOU WILL BE IMPORTANT TO THIS WORLD SOME DAY!
2007-10-23 10:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 9⤋
You 2 sound very confused. Do you want to be best friends or soulmates?? If you were only friends to begin with then nothing that happened could be considered as cheating or being dishonest. You see, the sex makes you more than just friends. It connects you emotionally thats why each of you felt betrayed by the other. You guys need to determine where you stand in each other's life and if you want to make it official because the whole calling each other best friends versus bf&gf thing won't last long as you see. Talk to her and see how she feels about you. If you decide to be together as a couple then leave the past where it is. If you decide to just be friends then leave the sex out of it.
2016-05-25 05:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by lanell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain some maturity girl....and dont mean to sound mean, really! If you want to break up with him, no problem, but at least have a good reason to do so. If you are able to break up with him for no reason, or b/c of your period, then you are not even close to loving him. Loving him means you would do anything to make him happy, that you love being around him and esp wanna be with him. Talk to him about how you feel...but it kinda sounds like you are freaking out over nothing,I mean, he hasnt done anything wrong, so you are punishing him for no reason, and again, you would not hurt him on purpose if you love him. Really think about your feelings, and talk to him about how you feel, and be a little more mature about how you express your feelings. There are several people who start dating a guy at your age, and ten years down the road they are married, so dont assume guys will just come and go. Enjoy him, love him, if thats what you want, but plz dont play mind games.
2007-10-23 10:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Bama 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what the question is exactly. But you should really ask yourself why you wanted to break up with him in the first place. If you love him as you claim you do, breaking up wouldn't really be an option. If you love him and feel that he is not right for you, maybe it is better that you do break up with him. Like you said, you are young, chances are you will have many other boyfriends. All you can do is try to find the person that is the best to you, and for you, the one that makes you happiest and brings out the best in you. Anyone else is just not worth your time!
2007-10-23 10:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by AmandaRae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi I started going out with my now Husband when I was 14 and both me and him sometimes thought of splitting up, but when you do or when you go to do it, you just cant as you know how much you really want to be with that person. Everyone has doubts but dont do things quickly as hormones like you said your period could be the cause, you might be thinking it now, but as soon as you have said you have finished with him your hormones probably will have settled and you will have deeply regretted it, All girls feel this at sometimes, you never know this could be you actually of finding the right guy for you, I know you are young bur me and my hubby are still together, You know how you feel. So if you really dont want to break up with him dont and just forget that you ever thought that you wanted to. I feel so bad now as there was a few times when I was first going out with my hubby that I didnt want a relationship, but we are inseperable now.
2007-10-23 10:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, believe me, this will not be the biggest mistake of your life! Guys come and go like headaches! If he really cant focus on school, maybe you two should spend less time or take a break because you care about him and want him to do well in school. Don't get caught up with guys. There's a reason why he's your first love; because there will be others to follow.
2007-10-23 10:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ReKa♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you do love him..you only think you do...and im not basing that on the fact that your only 13...I came to that conclusion simply because the thought of breaking up with him is crossing your mind...That's not love babii cakes. Just end it now because its going to happen anyway...
And don't get into another relationship to soon..your too young enjoy being single and care free you have so much ahead of you!
- lending a helping hand
2007-10-23 10:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Amusing but confusing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep u r too young for sex and if you do have it and get pg then consider this most guys don't want women with kids. So wait go to high school and college and then get married when you r older and far MORE MATURE. To make it in this world you will need a job so what kind of job will you get without an education?????Think about it? Your future is in your hands. Enjoy life for you are only young once.
2007-10-23 10:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by spook12spook12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem very, very, happy with this boy, and he seems to like you too. Yes, it could be your period, as period can cause your emotions to go crazy. You period could cause frustration and anger. I don't see why you should break up with him.
Yeah, I'm a teen too, and when I ask questions sometimes people remark that I'm too young to worry about a break-up because I probably won't get married to that guy. But does that mean that I shouldn't be upset when my bf and I break up? NO!
But anyway, I hope I helped you!
Kymee :)
2007-10-23 10:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have many boyfriends along the way, I know you said it yourself but it's an important point, and if at 13 you believe you are truly in love, then you are in love no one can decide you feelings for you, it is something only you can control, but aboot the relationship, look deep inside yourself, stand infront of your mirror and ask is this boy the right one for me, trust me you will find the answer
2007-10-23 10:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anthon S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
screw age! does he make you lagh and smile? Do u feel warm and tingly when u think about him? Does he know what to say to u to make u feel better when ur upset? If so, then DONT BRAKE UP WITH HIM! sometimes we have mood swings but if most of the time u really love him than keep him.
2007-10-23 10:51:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋