My boyfriend, whom i do love very much, and I are in our third month of our relationship. I promised my parents I wouldn't do anything in the way of sex until i was old enough to care for a child on my own, and I am only 15. I don't want to betray my parents, but my boyfriend is pressuring me and I don't know how to handle it.
Also I'm moving in a month, halfway across the world, an I won't see him till summer. So, I also feel like i should just as a sealing sort of thing, to prove that i really do love him with all my heart, and that I won't do anything in my new location to disprove that.
ADVICE PLEASE!?!
2007-10-23 10:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait... The first time isn't always the best anyway.... and if he has the same feelings for you he will wait..Good Luck!
2007-10-23 10:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have sex to prove anything. Sex before marriage, is always a mistake, and especially at your age. This seems like a serious romance now, and it may well be, but if it's meant to last forever, he'll wait. If not, why give up your virginity to a short-term romance.
You'll respect yourself if you say no, and you won't have to worry about anyone finding our what you've done and your husband will eventually appreciate you more for saying no.
2007-10-23 17:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by pontigoat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and no. If he's pressuring you for sex and won't take no for an answer, the second you move, he'll find somebody who will have sex with him. Long distance relationships are very hard, and if you're not committed, they won't work out. Your boyfriend is not committed, and you're only 15; there are plenty of opportunities out there, don't tie yourself down to one guy now.
Please, respect yourself and your body, and the promise you made to your parents. Tell your boyfriend no. If he continues to hassle you, you'll know he doesn't respect you.
2007-10-23 17:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you have to prove your love for someone by sleeping with them: think again my friend. If HE LOVED YOU, he wouldn't pressure you to begin with. How old is your boyfriend? I would seriously consider breaking it off, but that is your choice.
2007-10-23 17:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mistress Lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get back. If he really loves you he will have to wait.
2007-10-23 17:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO!
Don't let him talk you into anything.
You will regret it THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-23 17:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it
2007-10-23 17:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋