I see a lot of cute boys who are with slutty girls or nerdy girls... but they don't give me a chance... When I go out, they always stare at me up and down, some have the courage to compliment me saying I look pretty/beautiful, but they would quickly leave after... and would do some other weird things... There's no boys who approach me... at all... I wear fancy clothes, jeans and heels. I'm really nice and I don't get mean at people even if the person's not my type, I wouldn't embarrass them like a lot of girls do. But they never give me a chance... I live in NYC and I'm 18... What can I do? Where can I go?
2007-10-23 10:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mysterious Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Takfam - Excuse you. I am nowhere near fat. I weigh 105 lbs... Anyone who knows me knows I was never fat... So thank you for judging before knowing.
2007-10-23 15:17:52 · update #1
Meeting people, boys included, is about your ability to talk to others and make them comfortable. Think about who you are and your interests. Then think about how you might meet people with similar interests so that you can start conversations. And, yes, you need to be able to start conversations, not wait for a guy to. If you just sit around, focusing on your looks, and wondering why no one talks to you, you won't get anywhere. Start focusing on your ability to make friends.
2007-10-23 10:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by TammyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just too dense to realize that by complimenting you, they are approaching you and that it takes two to have a conversation and develop interest. Try responding next time.
And since when do people refer to their own clothing as "fancy"? Do you seriously try that hard?
Stereotyping other girls that have what you want is low. It's an exaggeration to say that if a girl isn't like you, they have to be slutty or nerdy. Quit being a snob.
Boys won't approach you until your social aptitude rises.
2007-10-23 10:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Amelia Pedophelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the year 2007 going into 2008. It's time you make the move on the boys. Approach them.
2007-10-23 10:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by USAGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets look at the guys point of view ,maybe you are being to shy?Express youself more. Be comfortable around them.Or maybe that there just scared around you because your so nice to everyone. I'm sure either the first or second one will do!
2007-10-23 10:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes boys are just shy and they don't want to be rejected anymore than we do. Join a young singles club or youth group. Talk to your guy friends about introducing you to one of their NICE single friends. I love NYC and am very envious that you live there!
Good luck, sweetie!
2007-10-23 10:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by ga.peach67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't anything's wrong with you. You just haven't met the right guy yet. Be patient and he'll eventually find you, trust me. You can't always do the chasing. Just be yourself and I'm sure some guy will find the convidence to talk to you and want to get to know you.
2007-10-23 10:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by iloveyou♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 10:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I have the same issue. I am told how beautiful I am, but I never get approached. I am a very nice person, and I am not at all stuck on myself. It is a mystery!!!
2007-10-23 10:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by jillybean5415 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your probably to hot for them. Sluts will get attention because they're easy to get. Same with nerdy/desperate people, easy to get. You just scare them off your as beautiful as you say ;) Try going to them.
2007-10-23 10:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are the girls slutty? maybe these cute boys hanging around them are sluts too?
2007-10-23 10:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋