We have a long-distance relationship where I only see her during the weekends (every weekend).
I bought her a white gold necklace for her birthday which is on a Tuesday and I don't know when to give it to her, the weekend before or the weekend after? Also, if I give it to her the weekend before should she open it when she is with me that weekend or the day of her birthday (although what I really want is for her to open it when I am with her, to see her reaction and how she likes it etc.).
What do you guys think I should do?
2007-10-23 09:01:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a gold necklace ide give it like yesterday before you loose it
2007-10-23 09:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Josh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a truck driver and deal with the same problem. Here's what you do. You get a second (cute/cheaper) gift. And give both to her the weekend before. Tell her to open the good one while you are there. Its better because she can be close to you when she gets the more personal gift. But tell her to save the other for her birthday. Let her know its just something simple and its just so she will have something to open on her birthday.
2007-10-23 09:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by truckercub1275 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The weekend before. You're always more excited on the days leading up to your birthday than on the ones afterwards. I would personally feel like it wasn't a birthday present, just kind of here-ya-go gift if it was after my birthday.
So I would definitely say before.
2007-10-23 09:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to her the weekend before. It will put her in a good mood for her birthday. Be there when she opens it too.
2007-10-23 09:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish her on Tuesday tell her Give the gift before weekend..
Early is better than late.. if you give the gift before her birth day she will feel very happy..Next thing she open before you means that day is specail day for you also..
Pl give me the gift before weekend and wish her on tuesday
But if possible Try to tuesday But Girl friend birthday is most important than anything else .. So Cancel otherthings go and meet your girlfriend enjoy with her that day
2007-10-23 09:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by gdp_durga4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to her the weekend before so she will have it on her birthday. Since you will not be there on her actual birthday you two can celebrate the weekend before.
2007-10-23 09:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to her the weekend before, so she will know you didn't forget, and you'll get to see her face when she opens it. You could also maybe give her a card to open on the actual day, so she'll have two presents from you.
2007-10-23 09:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a card that arrives on her birthday and give the gift in person the following weekend. the weekend before, try to avoid the topic.
2007-10-23 09:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the weekend before and have her open it while you are there. She will have it to show and wear on her birthday.
Or if there is any possible way make a special trip to give it to her own her birthday. I think it would mean a lot to her.
2007-10-23 09:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by NeLLie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you buy her 2 presents one of them you give to her the weekend before her birthday (not the necklace) so she gets to open a pressie when she wants and then tell her that you have got her another pressie but she will have to wait till the weekend after her birthday to get it as you want to see her open it and it is a specail pressie, this will keep her guessing and makes the thrill of opening another pressie from you
2007-10-23 09:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hayley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The weekend before so she can be wearing it on her birthday and show everyone. Let her open it when you are there!!
2007-10-23 09:04:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋