.. and he's coming over to drop my stuff off. We split up because he said things didn't feel right. How should I act when he pops over? I'd really like to get back with him, without him thinking i'm desperate or a try hard.. do I make lots of effort with how I look? Please help!
2007-10-23 08:58:30 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We havent done the whole 'I love you' thing and I dont want to push it too far just yet!
2007-10-23 09:02:00 · update #1
its only 4months. if things dont feel right now and you find him hard to let go. Its going to be worst when a year or 2 pass and you find out you unhappy then you when you split up you will probably be crying all nite long because you were so attached to the wrong person. just dont feed into it. let him go.
2007-10-23 09:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by princehov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to get back with him, but he already let you know that he does not feel right about the relationship, so let it drop. If after awhile he comes back, great, but don't wear your heart on your sleeve. I woundn't try to look great, I would be in sweats, and hanging out. Some guys think that woman that are dressed up all the time are fake, so just be you. Thank him for your belongings, tell him you'll see him around sometime and see ya later.
2007-10-23 09:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal. If it is meant to work out it will. As cliche as it sounds its true. I dated my husband a long time ago and we split up for the same reason. It just didnt feel right. We got married almost 2 months ago after being back together for almost 3 1/2 years.
2007-10-23 09:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by brandirose1287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to look good but not too good.. and don't talk about any old stuff just keep it casual you know... ask him how he's been blah blah blah.. and you know just let him be comfortable...maybe he feels the same way and he will save you the trouble of having to make the first move. If he doesn't respond to this see how he responds to you asking him to hang out when he isn't "returning things". If he doesn't respond well to that.. you might as well move on...if he does though.. well you will know within one or three times of hanging out with him as a friend... if he wants you back or not.
2007-10-23 09:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Katchoo Choovanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with any coming over and dropping off ur stuff @ the end of a break up you should talk about everything. That subject will come up, and don't be afraid to bring it up if he doesn't. This could be your last chance to talk about it with this type of feelings still abroad. Try it out and see what happens...you have nothing to lose.
2007-10-23 09:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by adioposer63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look all the way cute.
Make it seem like you're getting ready to go somewhere, have your makeup done and have clothes picked out ready on the bed.
Make it seem busy when he comes in.
If he asks where you're going, say
'Nowhere, just hanging out with some girls.'
This won't make you seem desperate but it wont make you seem like you're moving on too quickly.
And make sure you're polite when he comes in but don't be all over him at the same time.
Also, if he doesn't bring something up don't be scared to. This might be your last time seeing him and confidence is what you want to show.
2007-10-23 09:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your anger is irrational. What you feel is jealousy. You have to understand that the relationship is over. It doesn't matter if he starts seeing a new girl the next day, next week, or next month. You are no longer a factor in when and who he has a relationship with. You want him to be 'hung up' on you, and you're just angry that he isn't. Get over it.
2016-05-25 05:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does he have a gurlfriend right know if he does and he talled u then he might think ur desperate for him n u dont respect he has a girlfriend.but if he doesnt then go for it! tell him how u feel then if he looks at u eye to eye just stair at him 4 while if u kiss and he didnt feel like it was right then dont keep on trying to get him he might think ur easy but if he keeps on going with the flow then tell him u miss him if he still likes u hell come back!;)
2007-10-23 09:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by anonomus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say the best way to get back at someone (not vindictively) when they break up with you is to show them how much you DONT need them.... when he comes over act like you'r the happiest person in the world... dress up a little and wear a HUGE smile!!! he might feel a bit upset that you are not all sad and soppy over him, but that is WHAT YOU WANT! half the world is men, half of it is women.... there is someone else out there for you who WILL feel like it is "right" with you. confidence is a big attraction point for the opposite sex..... good luck
2007-10-23 09:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by rapturousmermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But this is one of those questions that makes me go hum.
You would think if he wanted to get back with you, he would try to get you to come over to talk, not be dropping your stuff off. One would think?
2007-10-23 09:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Abel O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋