Ok I sensed something was wrong and called him on it he kept trying to convince me that he didn't want to come over cause I didn't have a t v in my new place after I dragged it out of him he kept telling me nothing was wrong he finally admitted that he wasn't ready for a relationship which was weird because the week before he was practically asking to move in with me...so he said he wants to be friends I said no then I said I wish you well its been fun and he said I'll call you later. Was he trying to string me along. Or let me down gently. It took him forever to finally say I wish you well. Up until this point he had been the perfect gentlemen taking me out calling I totally didn't see it coming I thought we would possibly get married someday.
2007-10-23 08:55:22 · 23 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are'nt you glad you paid attention to your feelings & found out that this man was'nt worth your time before you wasted any more on him ? Anyone that needs a T.V. in the room in order to be comfortable with you is obviously not willing to be completely "there" with you - he sounds like an emotional coward. You can be proud of yourself that you did'nt fall into the "let's be friends" trap because yes,he was just blowing you off in a way that he could justify to himself . You deserve someone more mature!
2007-10-23 09:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey...I think he got scared of something. Perhaps you guys went too fast? He may still be interested, but try the friendship thing for a while. Don't beat yourself up over this; guys are just as wishy-washy as girls. But don't come on too strong as a friend. Let him know that if this is what he wants, that's okay. And don't sit around waiting for him to decide if he wants you or not. This seems to be a blessing. Perhaps you should hang out with your girlfriends more and be happy about life in general--the right guy will come along. Good luck!!
2007-10-23 09:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that he was after something and didn't get it so he said forget it . If he was interested in you he wouldn't give up ....My husband and I was best friends for about a year and i had just gotten out of a 8months relationship and he wanted to date me i said no that were best friends and that i didn't want to loose that ....well to make a long story short we skipped the dating part and got married .....my point is that guy is not into you like you thought he was after something he didn't get so he moved on :)
2007-10-23 09:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by anastasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. He sounds...mean. Something was obviously wrong..t.v, or no t.v. Why not go over to his place, sit him down, and just be all like, "I understand what's happening, but i need to know why. And I'm not leaving until i do." Have guts, and don't let this bring you down. If you're not meant to be with that guy, then God's not gonna let you be with him. Good luck. I hope everything turns out okay.
2007-10-23 09:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Leafdapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might have found someone else. When he was "practically ready to move in" he may have felt he needed to, but he obviously doesn't feel that way any more.
It sounds like you're better off without him.
P.S...It's extremely difficult to read this question because your sentences go on foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
2007-10-23 09:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a loser!! Not you him. I think you need to stay away from this dude. Because he sound just like all the payers, come for the ?? he couldn't get it by moving with you he would have. so since you didn't let him o he's gone. I know it hurts but I think you have nothing to regret because it is in your best interest that he is gone.
2007-10-23 09:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Soldier 4 Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you thought you were gonna marry him? how long have you known this dude!?
and I'm sorry to say this but 9 out of every 10 men are a**holes who will do anything to get a chick to put out
it's the sad truth, men suck [we really do]
it sort of seems like he was doing both
he was trying to blow you off and he was hoping you would blow him
sorry about the dude though
2007-10-23 09:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you went through this, but it sounds like you are better off without this guy. I don't know what his motivations are but, from the way you describe things, you can do better.
Some guys talk straight, mean what they say, and don't manipulate others. I call these guys men.
2007-10-23 09:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with this guy...... If so he tired of you quickly.. Maybe you will have to check the next boy friends credentials a little .better.... I wish you love and good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-23 09:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-23 08:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋