I have been having these re-occuring dreams where my boyfriend goes behind my back, and befriends, then becomes romantically involved with another woman. They usually meet online, or through friends, and in each dream, they admit that he went to visit her (she always lives far away) for one day, to see if they connected in person. In the dream, I confront them both, and I ask her all the questions about how they met, why they did this...did she know I existed? And...she answers me calmly. My boyfriend looks not guilty, and stands by this new woman.
I know that in real life, my boyfriend is not cheating on me, and that his affections are truly towards only me. (We have a great, open, loving relationship, with full honesty), and he would never do this to me. Plus, there are no red flags.
Can any suggest another reason why I would be having this dream?
2007-10-23 08:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by wateripple 5 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
* Please answer with the circumstance that he is NOT cheating.
Thanks!
2007-10-23 08:51:01 · update #1
Look within yourself. Chances are, the dream does not have anything to do with your boyfriend actually cheating on you. It is simply your subconscious self uncovering fears regarding loss of a loved one. You may also feel as though you are not worth of having such a loving, passionate relationship and deep down believe that you are ultimately doomed for failure or abandoment. Truly believe that you deserve a loving, healthy, stable, commited relationship and eventually your dreams will catch up to your heart and mind.
2007-10-23 09:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pelmeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why will we Dream? no person somewhat is accustomed to why we dream. there are a number of theories in spite of the incontrovertible fact that: -objectives take place for no reason in any respect. Your recommendations merely ticks over in case you're asleep and random issues come out, purchase they do no longer propose something. -objectives exhibit thoughts you have been bottling up and artwork out problems for you - or a minimum of attempt to. -objectives are the gods speaking to you. Many historical human beings believed that the solutions to their questions might come to them in a dream, surprisingly on the night earlier some thing important, like a conflict. -The sought after psychoanalyst Sigmud Freud thought that objectives are an expression of what we secretly desire for, whether we pretend we don't, and that they are finished of symbols with hidden meanings." in my view, objectives are merely objectives. i do no longer take them too heavily, and that i do no longer believe they're a demonstration that some thing undesirable is going to take place. i does not trouble, yet in accordance to the theories pronounced above you're able to be having those nightmares because of the fact of your doubts. you're doubting your boyfriend, you think of he's cheating on you, so which you will dream approximately it. you're able to proceed loving your boyfriend, and don't permit some thing as trivial as nightmares (which happens to anybody) get interior the way of a skill long-term relationship. desire I helped, and larger of success to you and your boyfriend.
2016-10-04 10:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a romantic relationship with full honesty. Anyway, you really like your boyfriend and are a little bit insecure.
2007-10-23 09:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by short round 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean you're afraid of losing emotional security in the significant relationships in your life - not necessarily your romantic one.
2007-10-23 08:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Estrogen.
2007-10-23 08:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Classic Detta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look with thy self. Perhaps, it is you who wants to cheat.
2007-10-23 08:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by optitkl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋