a threesome and not get insucre about it, like for a one time thing for your partner
2007-10-23 06:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in several 3-somes.... fortunately I've NEVER been in a 3-some while I had an exclusive, committed partner. I HAVE been in 3-somes in which the other two have been partners... and in every case.. EVERY case... they have broken up soon afterwards (within 3 months). The reason being that one or the other of them started questioning if the other was more attracted to me or would prefer me than their partner.
3-somes are NOT for those that have committed, exclusive partners!!! It for those that do not have have partners or have casual partners.
Its not that the women can't handle it... I've seen both the guy and the gal become nuts and break it off with their partner.. so its more of a partner thing.. than a guy or girl thing.
2007-10-23 06:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many so you better be careful.
If you do it make sure you do it with a stranger and not a friend. She will always think that you like her friend and she will not trust you within 100 feet of that girl ever again. Dont treat the other girl like your girl fiend when you are having sex.
True the woman should be in control but a threesome is about the man pleasing both women at the same time. He should be giving one head while screwing the other one etc. No one should feel left out at anytime
2007-10-23 06:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, but it has to be done very carefully. The woman should get to pick the other partner involved, and it should not be someone that either person knows...and the man should always pay more attention to his woman than the other person...I am assuming you mean a 2nd woman, you really didn't say.
The woman should be in control at all times and call all the shots.
I personally would not do it with my partner. If I pick someone to have a relationship with, I don't really care to involve others at all.
2007-10-23 06:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL..... It would be an exceptional woman to not be insecure, I would applaud her. In most threesomes, someone always gets left out or rather feels left out, but I wonder if you could handle a threesome with another guy plus your lady? How would you handle that? LOL.....
2007-10-23 07:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As always, it all depends on the people.
I had a 3some with a couple, the other woman was so keen for it, but her husband got sulky about it and they split up a couple of months later.
On the other hand, I was living next door to couple in their late 40s, we got friendly and eventually they asked me to 'experiment' with them. We had a good 3some relationship that lasted, once or twice a month, for around 15 months until I moved away. I still keep in touch with them, their marriage is as solid and happy as ever.
2007-10-24 00:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Marvel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sometimes fantasize about threesomes but in real life I don't think I could handle seeing my man with someone else
2007-10-23 07:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm... My wife loves threesomes with other women and I and we've had many of them as well as MFM threesomes for her. Why do something that is so fun just once?
2007-10-23 07:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've done it once and it's something I'll likely never do again. I was ok with it, but the other woman wasn't. That was odd because she was the one who initiated it. I was the hesitant one at first. It ended up being a nightmare of a night.
2007-10-23 06:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would never participate in a threesome and it has nothing to do with insecurity
2007-10-23 06:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Impossible to know for sure.
2007-10-23 10:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by luvbev2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋