What constitutes a good man? Well, word is that they are usually respectful, don’t push to hard, and also probably didn’t exist back in the prehistoric days where you’d club a woman over the head. After further review, it seems as though nice guys also have a lot of patience. This is usually where things start to get shady for the nice guy. The “Have your cake and eat it too!” factor comes into play. The woman knowingly tramples over Mr. Nice Guy like Simba’s Dad in a wilder beast stampede! Sad. However, the biggest difference between that lion and Mr. Nice Guy is that the nice guy always gets back up, brushes himself off, and tries again, Dedication. You have to admire that in a funny way though. Does the nice guy know when enough is enough? On the other hand, the “Bad Guy” that we all know as “Thugs” usually don’t care what his woman thinks; actually he does the exact opposite of what his female asks of him.
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2007-10-23 04:47:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't need more info about this, I know allllll to well what the deep-seeded reasons for this are. Your smart, so I'll waste my time explaining yet again. Its about PURPOSE, I know, I know your not understaind what I'm saying, let me explain. Nice guy's purpose is the woman, I'm I right? Now that would make ANYONE very, very INSECURE!!! Because the fact is most people, espacially our society's ladies are not the best people to fellow, not the best people to make your purpose in life, ever heard how no ones perfect? Yep thats the reason. That aside when a "Nice Guy" does this he puts the lady in a very.... HIGH ANXIETY position were she is the one calling the big shots, and therefore she's the one whose going to feel more then the "nice guy" BAD when a choice goes bad. Also were lost buddy, making a relationship based on just one of the individuals is a bad, bad choice. Now on to the "Bad Boy" See the bad boy usually alwasy calls the shots, he because HER purpose in the relationship. AAALLLLL of a sudden she's in your position! And mister bad's in hers. HE does a better job then here with the "Nice guy" because he has a purpose thats pretty f'in simple, that she can follow, that keeps most of their poor heads from hurting with all the indescion and regerts she had with the "Nice guy" usually around the ideals of sex and drugs. Works really good for the "Bad boy" because its simple, its easy, and it fulfills the most primitive thing needed for a relationship to work, hence YOU NEED A PURPOSE OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP!!! ANYTHING!!! OUTSIDE LOVEING JUST FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE!!! So in a sick and twisted way he is actually creating a better relationship then the "Nice Guy" who just sits around worshiping the girls ****. And proves beyond a doubt how important it is to have a purpose to a relationship. So really if the "Nice Guy" would feel pretty confident that he knows a great way to live life, and get the lady to see that and join him on that mission (church, family, helping poor african's eat, and feeding homeless people) he can be just as attractive to the lady as the "Bad boy". So I hope you see its the fact that the "Nice Guys" are putting the female in a very anxieious position because people don't know what they want, they need someone to sort of push them in a direction. The bad boy accomplishes this goal, while mister nice just sits there and ask, well what do you what to do? Purpose is powerful....
2007-10-26 02:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You seem kind of shallow and materialistic, and very bitter. Did it ever occur to you that just maybe that girl that may seem less attractive and frumpy to you is a ten in the guy's eyes? Not all guys are shallow. The other thing is, you may be looking for that special someone, when the reality is, when the right guy appears, he is going to approach you and you will know it only if you let go of the outward appearances. He might be breathtakingly gorgeous, or he might just be average, but you won't know if you are settling for just a "type". There is a saying that there is someone for everyone. Sometimes there are people together that you might really say, "Ew!" Wondering what the heck does he see in her or vice versa. There are forces beyond this universe that are capable of causing two people to be very much attracted to each other because of their chemistry, their connection. It's not always about sex. Though attraction and intensity and compatibility can make that incredible. Once you get off of your shallow high horse and take a long good look at your inner self, you will attract someone who will make your heart sing. Someone who is worthy of your heart and vice versa. He may complement you in ways that you never imagined. You have to decide what you really want beyond the obvious, outward beauty, or inner beauty.
2016-05-25 03:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋