help me please ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and yesterday he kept calling me then he left a message saying if i dont get back together with him he threatened my life and my family and friends life i am so scared b/c last week he said he would fight my neighbor b/c he thought i was cheating on him but my neighbor is my cousin so he ffought him and he keeps his promises and we were together only for 2 yrs and he said if i go to the police he will shoot me! my bus goes by the police station and i saw him there and he has a gun in his hand and he has been by my house all the time he is stalking me and he got into my house and cut the phone line and stole all the phones includeing cell phones in my house! i do not know how he got into my house and i am scared if i get back together with him and i break up with him again i dont know what he will do to me and he is an abusve boyfriend i have bruieses all on my arms and some on my face no where else though uh oh here he comes help me!!
2007-10-23 04:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by nickjonasroxtheworld!!!!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me it kind of soundslike a prank that it isnt real and just a made up story i tell it like i see it sweety... if he is doing these things where are ur parents and how old are u? i dont understand really but if u are over 18 you need to get help or better if u cant FIGHT BACK.! protect yourself sweety..you need to FIGHT BACK!
2007-10-23 04:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by saved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Go to the police. Right now. Drop EVERYTHING and RUN to the nearest police department. Tell them EVERYTHING, even if you're embarrassed. If you can't leave right this second, then call 911 (or whatever your emergency number is) and have the police come to you. Then leave your house and find someplace else to stay. A friend, a relative, your own apartment, whatever. Take up an assumed name if you have to. That's what I did. Do it. Do it immediately.
2007-10-23 11:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bizzybizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order immediately. Have NO contact with him whatsoever. Go away somewhere friend or family's house and strictly limit those that you tell and whomever you do, FORBID them to tell ANYONE where you are. You must involve the police! Keep a record of everything, keep everything message EVERYTHING!
2007-10-23 11:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♀Redheaded Sunshine☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real? If it is, you really need to get the police involved. Don't you dare even consider going back with this person. It is survival time and you need to protect yourself as best you can. The police is the way you can do that.
2007-10-23 11:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Primrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...this guy sounds insane. You are lucky to be rid of him. You need to collect all of the messages he has left you, and head to the nearest police station. I know you are afraid because he has threatened you about this, but matters could turn out much worse if you don't get help NOW!
2007-10-23 11:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him you need to go to the police, get a restraining order, stay with a friend for a while & hopefully one who is potebtially crazier then him. Protect yourself!
2007-10-23 11:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death threats are a felony... call the police and have him arrested. If you have proof, ie voice mail messages, another person hearing the threat,... all the better to convict him with.
2007-10-23 11:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋