I speak to a very good friend online everyday. He always likes talking to me and leaves me offline messages if Im not around.
Recently - i find he is growing closer to me. Trusting me with his deeper issues and thoughts. He says im loyal.
I feel I have to tread carefully now because I dont want to hurt him in any way because he is revealing his vulnerable side.
Is this what men REALLY want? A woman they can trust and share their innermost feelings with?
Answers from Adults only please.
2007-10-23 04:38:43 · 24 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
When talking to someone online, you can very easily lie, as your voice tone, facial expression and gestures are not visible. If you do not know your online friend in person, it is not a very good idea to tell him/her everything about yourself, as you don't really know who he/she really is.
2007-10-23 04:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take offence at my answer, but I have a strong feeling that you should be a wee bitty wary of your friend. I also think you may have to mother him and watch that vulnerable side. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, but you do not know him well enough yet. Why don't you meet him and have fun and go out and enjoy yourselves and slowly develop a relationship. A man who confides his feelings to a woman does not necessarily fancy her. Please take your time. Something is not feeling right here and I am sorry to offend you but I feel you need a friend to talk to about this before getting involved deeper.
2007-10-23 07:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how well you know this guy. I'd be very suspicious of anyone I'd only met online and knew very little about if they started telling me personal stuff. He might be trying to 'soften you up' before suggesting a meeting. Be wary!
But yes, it is good to have a woman you can trust and share feelings with, but I'd only do this with a 'real' person, not an anoymous cyber pal.
2007-10-23 04:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even as a man, ..as a married man I keep asking myself the same question.
The answer is simple really: A whole package of femininity, i.e. a listening, trusting, entertaining, beautiful, caring woman. And sexy too.
2007-10-23 04:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Teedaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A luxury Barlays Bank machine in the shape of a woman.
They are emotionally detached and just want to get their rocks off, have their clothes washed , 3 meals a day and a clean bed to sleep in. Any woman can do this for them, they are not that fussed.
PS. People can put on terrific acts online. Beware!
2007-10-23 04:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he thinks this is what you want and so he's opening up to you so that your feelings may grow romantically for him? Just make sure you dont tell anyone what he says and never use them against him in an arguement.
2007-10-23 04:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by airyfairyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen my dear, ,
man cant talk to other men about private issuers
,women are so lucky, they talk to each other' even the smallest problems, men need some mother sister friend to elaborate their smallest fears, so be charitable and listen to this unfortunate man,
One day you will need some one special to have council with
2007-10-23 05:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by denis9705 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an infatuated nutter!
Run for the hills before he turns up with flowers and some funny ideas that are nothing to do with friendship!
2007-10-23 04:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Hugo Fitch 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well yea. would you want to be with some one that's lies? As a man I have been burn allot. I am with this new girl now. Who i relay like. I to am begging to trust her. I hope she trust me. She as been hurt to. Men need some one to rely on . They dissever loyalty jest as much as woman. Love and loyalty gos both ways.
2007-10-23 04:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by peterson_c_r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becareful going there , you might not return from the darkside,, ,, most men are looking for someone to spend their empty time with,,you know ,, when everyone else is busy,,, they want a good cook,, clean clothes , a tidy house,,someone to "get busy " with and someone who will listen to them complain ,,, but most of the time they just want a woman 4 sex,,,,,
2007-10-23 05:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by mytic0420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋