I was in a six year relationship, that was off and on long distance. Togther we had a flawless relationship and we were truely best friends and were very much in love. To make a long story short, every situation that can keep two people apart happened, weve been through pregnancies, him going to jail, deaths in the family you name it...... Well, I found out almost a year after the fact, that right before he was facing jail time, he eloped and married another woman. I have been soooo angry about it that I dont even want to talk to him, and when ever we do speak (shortly because i hang up on him) He tries to tell me that the situation is not at all what I think and he didnt marry her for those reasons. It has been 3 years, I cant move on and get involved with anyone else, because my heart is still with him. He has never let me go, he will find a way to contact me no matter what, even after 3 years. Did he marry her for pity to the judge? Should I talk to him, even though he married her?
2007-10-23 04:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by JASMINE T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, talk to him, tell him that u're life is too precious to waste it with a married man.
2007-10-23 04:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Altheea 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not him and can not even attempt to explain why he married this other woman, however the bottom line sweetie, is that he married another woman behind your back! That means he must have had some sort of relationship with this woman to even consider marrying her. I feel your pain, but I just think its too much to overcome. In addition, you didn't even find out till a year after that he had gotten married. What else is out there? I'd move on as hard as it may seem. You deserve better. Good Luck.
2007-10-23 11:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's still married to her you need to move on. He belongs to her. either way I think you should move on, if he would marry her and say it wasnt for the right reasons, whose to say he wont tell the next girl that he didn't marry you for the right reasons. Ditch him. In order to help get over him dont talk to him at all, if he sends you a letter dont read it. if he calls, hang up. and anytime you think of him, think of something you cant stand about him, like him being in bed with another woman, or somethign horrible that will make you not like him. and do the same anytime you think about any good thing about him, replace it with things you dont like, you'll get over him fairly quickly
2007-10-23 11:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got no respect for you. Unless you have a child together -- not clear -- you don't need him involved in your life at all, and it would be much for the better.
What you think is what matters. Past time to move on.
2007-10-23 11:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon girl. Surely you have more respect for yourself than that! Stop living in the past and move forward already. Don't bother with this loser. Besides, he's probably cheating on his wife in jail anyway.
2007-10-23 11:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by QWERTY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter why he married her,he is married! You know this is wrong.Why would you want a guy that's been in jail anyway? You have to move on with your life and forget him.Good luck.
2007-10-23 11:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by notagain49 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to let go. He chose his life with someone else. Do not complicate it by calling him.
2007-10-23 11:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Frank the Tank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi jas
you need too go down a new road .look for a new adventure.
if you don.t ;he will tear you up . for ever and ever .
2007-10-23 11:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋