i want to date him,but i dont fink he likes me.
2007-10-23 04:00:56 · 25 answers · asked by Suriya H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you want someone you have to make them like you.find someone who is crazy about you
2007-10-23 04:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by mary ann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this position before and there is nothing you can do except walk away sweetie. You cannot make anyone like you, you cant force attractions like that, it isnt right and you need to stop now before you get truly obsessed. He wont be the one crying or suffering embarresment everytime he sees you when, if what you think is true and he doesnt like you like that, happens. I know it sounds harsh and horrible, but I have learnt that mistake three times - maybe I am still learning - But save yourself the heartache and move on. Trust me, the right guy'll come along one day and you'll wonder why you even looked at that other guy before. May sound unbelievable, but its true. And remember, if he doesnt like you, its HIS loss, not yours. Please make sure you dont change the person you are either! Good Luck in love and life hunni!
AND DO NOT listen to Jim Ls advice. Hes an idiot, dont ever stoop to that level just for a guy!
Jim, if your going to give advice, give some decent advice.
2007-10-23 11:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with someone else....always act happy, like everything is perfect...if you catch him looking at you,say hi, then continue doing what you were doing. Boys want what they cant have, in other words, if you show that you are extremely interested, he probably wont go after you. Dont give him the time or day, hell probably run right after you.If not, then hes really not interested in you.
2007-10-23 11:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by dnk0717 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned over the years that ,sadly, you can't make anyone like you. If they do, they do, and if they don't, then s**** them. Be yourself. If you don't think he likes you then find someone who will. I know that sounds easier said than done, and you are probably thinking that I don't know what you're going through. Try to look for people who make you feel like you do not have to change or be someone different than who you are.
2007-10-23 11:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn how to spell, and then you might have a chance.
Second of all, don't make a fool of yourself. Wait and see if he makes a move to show you that he cares about you. Then, go from there.
2007-10-23 11:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Joy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest being yourself. I mean just be who you are. If he likes that then all is well.
If you just be yourself and he doesn't like you then all is good too because you don't want to change the way you are for anyone.
If you do you won't be happy and you also won't be able to keep being someone you're not.
2007-10-23 11:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, ask him out for a few drinks or something.
You don't know until you try, whats the worst that can happen unless he is immature and stupid and would start rubbing it in your face.
2007-10-23 11:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the only thing to do is just be yourself. you cant make someone "like" you if they dont have those feelings. my advice is just be yourself....there is no such things as "the boy of my dreams"-the ones you think are....usually the jerks of all guys. try to become friends with him or if you dont want try so hard...get your group of friends to be friends with his group of friends and give it time and see if things fall into place. if you try to hard you will just make a fool of yourself.
2007-10-23 11:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to find out that you like him, tell your friends and word will get round. Then if he likes you back he would have the confidence to ask you out, if not then at least he will notice you.
2007-10-23 11:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by MySweet666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him approach him in the right way and see what happens. Just be yourself and act yourself and hopefully things will work out.
2007-10-23 11:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by mixedcurlyfries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him email adress or something and start chatting to him on msn or yahoo.
Start hanging around with his friends in order to get closer to him.
Or just ask him straight out.
2007-10-23 11:06:06 · answer #11 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋