im finally with the guy i have wanted to be with for the past year and he treats me sooo good, we talk on the phone everynight for hours, he kisses me passionately and holds me tight, tells me im beautiful...but the problem is im falling for him and im not going to tell him because he told me he was looking for ms. right, and i asked what a girl had to do to be considered ms right. and he said he didnt really know and then he said he would know in a few weeks if someone was ms. right and if it clicked or not...i dont understand i thought it clicked already if he liked me...someone please help i get the feeling im being used one minute and the next i feel like he really wants to be with me
2007-10-23 03:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just hold on...He is just testing his feelings to make sure he is really feeling this way about you. I do believe he means You. If not I would be shocked. Just be patient. People who are in question about feelings for you don't invest the time on the phone with you. He is just being wise and making sure before he makes an official proclamation, he is also protecting you from being hurt too. Good luck - Ms Right!!!
2007-10-23 03:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by sherri s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that a man can make a woman feel as if she is the
one and only. He doesn't have to love you to kiss & hold you tight. Nor to tell you a lot of bull. It is so easy to fall for the wrong man because you let your emotions take over. Give this time, and realize it may not go where you want it to. It may be the real thing, time will tell. You don't have to jump in
head first do You?
2007-10-23 10:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to back off a little and give him some space. Make him chase you. Make other plans sometimes; just don't be that available to him and if he's truly interested in you, he'll come. Make a life of your own that does not include him. See him when you want, not always when wants. Keep him guessing...men like the chase and once your not so readily available, he'll recognize all the qualities in you he likes and will want you OR, he'll find someone else. Sadly, men aren't as open and giving and willing as we women are. They have to be challenged and we must be strong enough to the challenge them...
2007-10-23 11:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Laura G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a man who is not upfront with his feelings. I've learned (the hard way) that when a man knows that he wants something, he goes after it. I'm not saying that he doesn't want you....maybe he does. My best advice would just be to sit back and wait. If he doesn't come around soon, then just move on. I'm sure that you will find someone who cares enough about you to tell you how he really feels...Good luck :)
2007-10-23 10:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it it's not like he treats you like rubbish.
You can either not say anything, or lay it out straight to him and say you are falling for him, you need to know if it's going to work cos if not you want to get out before it gets too heavy. You might be surprised or it might be a blessing is disguise.
2007-10-23 10:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by LISA B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel - I've had the same prob and now he doesn't know what he wants. The advice I've gotten and trying to take is: Do your own thing and don't fall for anyone. Concentrate on you...be strong...be independant. Good Luck.
2007-10-23 10:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by marigoldkelly95 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a tricky one. try asking a friend to watch what he does when he is around other girls. either that or you can just ask him how he really feels about you.
2007-10-23 10:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Hotair10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just teasing you..guys love that..but if this continuos ..then you should be careful and be strong and dont fall for anything he says
2007-10-23 10:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋