Is there any way to stop women from eating so much and getting too fat to love?

Question

I went to the club on friday, and all I saw were fat girls. How can we stop this from being an everyday normal thing.

Calling me fat...oh dont think that for a second..I am 71' at 182 lbs with a body fat of 6.7%. so me fat ...I think not!

71" , pardon my typing

To Lovin...I am proud how you have gained only 10 lbs. Weigh to go...everyone is is just hating because they gained 100 lbs. Sick!!!

Answer 1

I already feel horrible about the 2 lbs. I gained! OMG! will you ever let up??!!

Answer 2

There are several points to my answer:
1. First, you need to clarify what you mean by fat. Do you mean morbidly obese to the extent of it taking a toll on someone's health, or do you mean a little chunky.

2. If you mean morbidly obese, then I agree that this should not be an everyday normal thing, but for different reasons. People should be healthy, and if they are not, then it is a shame and they should try to do something about it.

3. You should understand that people sometimes have health problems that cause their metabolisms to slow down and result in weight gain.

4. I am disturbed by the phrase "too fat to love." There are many women out there that are heavy that have wonderful lives with their significant others. Just because you don't happen to care for overweight women doesn't mean that they are too fat to love. Such a word choice could really mess up someone's self esteem and self worth, and you should probably be careful about saying things like that.

In conclusion, while you are allowed to have your own opinions, but there are probably less hurtful ways to say what you did.

Answer 3

If that's your picture - try loosing some weight, then maybe you will attract skinny girls. As to your personality - not sure what could be done about that. Guess you are reduced to spending all your free time in Yahoo answers, as nobody will date you.

To Lovin' - 8 months pregnant and gained 10 lbs - that's right, let's start putting fetuses on a diet. When you a have low birthweight baby, at least nobody can accuse him of chubbiness. And do not forget to starve the baby as he develops into a toddler. Think if he manages to put on some healthy baby fat, what will people say!

Answer 4

Gee, I can't imagine why you're single.

Many years ago, when I was still single, I was tall and thin. Well, at six feet, I'm still tall, but I weighed roughly 170, give or take five pounds. I quickly learned that if I wanted a real relationshp, to avoid the clubs and bars as that's where the ignroamouses and perverts hung out. (Although it was fun to scam free drinks from them and then turn them down. If they were going to be stupd enough to try and get me drunk before trying to get me into bed, I would be smart enough to get the one drink.) I got sick of idiots hitting on my body and not on my person. Frustrated, I said a prayer out of desperation. Before I fully realized what I had done, I had posted an ad on Yahoo! Personals, sans photo. After weeding through the pervs and those who didn't know basic grammar, spelling and composition skills (they were not easy to read and I figured that if they didn't care enough to make their responses readable, then they might not care about other important areas in life), I responed to about five. From those five, I exchaned more than a few e-mails. There was only one that made the cut. By the grace of God we are now married (three years after our fist date) and have our first child after six years of marriage. We're not cover model material. Yet, I think my husband is the sexiest man I've ever seen (and I've dated "cover model" material). He thinks I'm the sexiest woman and found me even sexier during my pregnancy, even at the end when I was 34 pounds heavier. Yes, I was careful about what I ate (it's part of my life, even pre-pregnancy), but I was aware that I needed more calories and nutrients for my baby. Maybe it was all of the all-natural foods I ate (just in greater abundance), but she was only 6 pounds, two ounces, and wonderfully healthy.

If you keep this attitude up, you'll be going to senior dances wondering why all of the "old" women are fat.

Answer 5

"too fat to love" ??? Apparently its not LOVE your looking for....

When you love someone you love the person, not the way they look.... or how much they weigh.

Everyone has their preference, I personally think women look better with some meat on them... however, if you choose to want nothing but a pile of bones, try visiting your local high school's science class, They should have a skeleton there you can take home as a play toy... then you will have everything you need right there at home with you and you no longer have to come out into the normal world where NORMAL looking women are....

I think that would make EVERYONE much happier!

Answer 6

how do you think they feel.. I am over weight and I hate it.. I dont eat much actually i see smaller people eat lots of food and junk food and they dont gain an ounce. but it seems all I have to do is look and I gain tons.. how can you judge someone when all everyone is looking for is love. if you love someone enough you could help them with their weight problem.. donot critize what you dont understand.. I should delete this answer because I believe you have had enough by the time you get to mine but o no I am sticking to it.. My husband loves me.. and that is enough for me.. If I try to loose weight and succeed with a few pounds then he notices and says how lovely I look or how hot I am.. but I know I can loose more. and by the way I said that I was over weight but didnt say by how much.. you are after women that are young, pretty, and slim.. I am old and not so much on the pretty side anymore. but some say that I dont look my age when I tell them and I still get hit on buy younger and older men.. even though I have been married for over twelve yrs..

Answer 7

Lol...Unfortunately nothing.It all comes down to them not having any self control. I know that I have a ferocious appetite and a sweet tooth. But I watch what I eat so that I can stay at a healthy weight and feel good about my appearance. For instance, I'm eight months pregnant and have only gained 10 lbs. I don't go by that whole "eating for two" bit. I eat for one and I'm satisfied. They go under the assumption that there is someone out there for everyone...well that may be, but your chances are increased when you keep yourself up! :)

Answer 8

Go out with someone with an eating disorder. They should be lost and confused enough to get with a shallow loser like you, poor things.

Or you could try not going out with anyone at all until you mature. I'm sure youre perfect in every way- that would explain why youre so judgemental. Grow up a little befor eyou start trying to control what other people eat.

Answer 9

Just don't date fat chicks. There will always be some fat chicks, but as long as lots of guys refuse to date them, then some women will stay skinny to get dates. Of course, if you're the only guy who refuses to date fat chicks, then you won't be enough to get women to stay skinny. But if you're the only guy who refuses to date fat chicks, then the problem is probably you, rather than the chicks. And based on your question, I'd say that's possible. If you thought every single one of the chicks at a club were fat, then it probably means you're being unreasonable.

Answer 10

have you ever wonderd that some men like thier women with a little meat on them? there is nothing wrong with that. Obviously you dont like that type so keep searching. I'm sure you are not perfect so look at yourself first before judging others. and by the way, i'm not over weight just in case you were wondering.

Answer 11

No room to talk buddy.... god your such a jerk nice comment pablo A. Girl above me if your 8 months preg. and have only gained 10 pounds that sounds unhealthy the baby it self should way 6 pounds by now what about water weight?????