hey every one i really need help i have been seeing the most awesome woman for over a year now we met on the internet and we still havnt but we hope so soon. There is a big ages difference between us but we really dont care about that ( shes older then me ) when we first got together it was unreal we were sooooooo happy and u could tell that we were in love but a few months ago i worryed that she would find some one better then me ect ect and we have had a few fights and now it really seems like she is fed up with me and she use to tell me out of the blue she loved me all the time now she dosnt she use to say how she thought i was the best looking guy shes ever seen now she dosnt she use to talk about sex to me ect ect now she dosnt. and when i try to talk to her about it she says NO i still love u. and ppl i love her more then anything on this earth and im **** scared of loseing her. whats going on please help me
2007-10-23 01:58:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt do anything to her nothing at all. when i use to say i love u babe she would say awww i love u to baby. now i say it and she says mmm i love u to but she says it really quick kinda makes me fell like she wants to say it like that to get it over and done with
2007-10-23 02:05:36 · update #1
I hope that you are not talking this freaky to her. I am not even your gf and you are scaring me off.
Best advice- chill a bit dude. You sound needy to the point of being kinda pyscho. It also pisses a woman off if you say stuff like being afraid of her finding someone"better" when she was with you..Women are not always looking to "better deal" a man. they also want a man not a whining kid..
Cool it a bit and give her some space
2007-10-23 02:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that no one likes a person who is so insecure. If the relationship is meant to work out it will. Don't be involving her in your thoughts that she might find someone "better". You should be thinking that there is no one better and that would come across better than insecurity. Be yourself, be calm and don't go all psycho in the relationship.
You have to think too that if it doesn't work out then maybe it wasn't meant to be. But so far it looks like she's still trying - if she didn't want to be with you she would break it off - which so far hasn't happened. You still have time to resolve your issues and move on with the relationship.
2007-10-23 02:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you need to calm down. The reason why she's pulling back is because you are getting scared and then you get more scared because she's pulling back. Just trust that things will work out for the best. If you guys stay together then there's nothing to worry about. If you guys don't stay together then it wasn't meant to be.
2007-10-23 02:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by ameeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that she's taking some time for herself. Dont smother her and give her some space. Best thing you could do is just to be her friend when a woman is in doubt. Dont talk about sex or anything, just listen to her and be understanding.
2007-10-23 02:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need some space in your relationship.Are you still hanging with your own friends.Have hobbies of your own that you take part in for a few hours every week.
And you can "dull" ,any relationship quick if you don't believe in her,when she says "I love you".and you main comeback attitude is "Please,don't leave me"
You lack confidence,know that she loves you! maybe your getting to clingy.
Sex is to me is more exciting.When it's only a chance for sex,it's not so readily available all the time.No flirtation,no waiting, gets old quick.
Like being invited to a friends wedding,I know I left the house with my man,(him all dressed up-smelling good).And I get to watch him ,through a crowd.Relaxed ,laughing.I may be thinking.I can't get to him now.But,wait till we get home.
You need to relax, you are your own worst chance of losing her.YOU GOT THE GIRL, chill out!
2007-10-23 02:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all yall relationship is not gonna work because yall met ova the internet and you dont know if she really cares about you like she say she do so u mind as well hang that **** up now!!
2007-10-23 02:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by True Diamond Shay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she will always like you but she might not love you anymore. Tell her that if she dumps you, you will be left heartbroken and she will give you the confidence you need to find someone else. Otherwise just keep working hard and let her sleep with other people.
2007-10-23 02:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell her you love her and her answer is " I know you do " then maybe its real ... Thats when you need to take a step back and see her for her ... not what you want her to be............. Thats the woman you will never loose. Thats the one who will love you for you..........
2007-10-23 02:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she doesn't love you, it can't be any plainer than that. Sorry.
2007-10-23 02:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know , but it made me sad reading it.... I starred ya k?
2007-10-23 02:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋