this guy i know has been texting me.i dont fancy him.(hes older than me bt very imature)..he asked me if i wanted more training(it was a peace offering-long story).we were going to meet up for footie training and then he texted me to say he couldnt go (hes been doing this for a while) a couple of hours later he said he could-but it would have been too late for me to get ready.. (he was probably only covering himself)..anyway- i didnt reply to either of those texts as i was annoyed..the other day, he texted me with a dirty joke.(was this 2 get n2 my good books again??).i ignored that last txt can you please explain his behavoiur?!!.i would completely ignore him but i want more training and he knows this. hes also v v good.. i feel as if im chasing after a carrott..could he be doing this to put me off from doing ne more training.. its easier and probably funnier for him to mess with my head-rather than being honest? or could he fancy me.(hes very immature)
2007-10-23 01:19:31 · 23 answers · asked by jaffacakesaresogood 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy knows what you want (more training) and he is using that so you will pay attention to you. He probably can help you get what you want (more training) but if he did that and you got what you wanted then there would be no need for you to talk to him or keep in contact with him, so yes-
he is dangling the carrot infront of you and will continue to do so till you put an end to it.
2007-10-23 01:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you do not fancy him?
What text did you not reply to? was it the dirty joke one?
How old are you and how old is he?
I do not really know what to say because I do not know your age or his age. If you two are in your teens then I would say that he may have a crush on you but if you are much older I would say that there could be a 64% chance he has a crush on you and the other 36%- he just likes playing games. Like you said, he is very immature. When he sent you this dirty joke, how did you feel afterwards? were you happy? or were you still annoyed?
Ask yourself this. What do you really want to know?
Do you want to know if he has a crush on you? or do you want to know why he keeps on playing games with you?
I hope this has helped somehow.
Louise
2007-10-23 01:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not knowing all the history, it sounds like he is extremely self centered. Being that there is talk of more training being a peace offering, I am assuming that this person withheld training but the reason as to why is not clear. Another possible scenario is that this person is feeling torn between how they feel and what the rest of the world would think about their choices and feelings. Overall, no matter the reason they are being very self centered. I believe that if you show less interest and become less available that the truth will make itself clear.
2007-10-23 01:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ame 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy doesn't sound nice from the word go.. first of all.. just peace training???.. whatever that means.... does not make anyone nicer in the first place... some poeple indulge in some activities only to create a good image.. i am sorry if i am wrong in this case.. but it seems like so here.. sadly... u should just reply positively to one of his dirty texts.. if u receive anymore.. n his intentions will become more than clear.. its far better than just letting him play around n build up an imaginary scenario in his mind about u being OK with his attitude... reply n look for his response in text but preferabbly don't meet in the meantime.. n after u get a reply u can get a claer picture.. its no harm... if hes out for it he will more than likely fall in the trap.. n u can easily ask him to leave once n for all....
2016-05-25 01:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really doesn't sound very emotionally stable. It also sounds as if he likes playing games. I bet this guy tries to have one person here, one person there and whoever gives him the most of what he wants he does something with that person, yet keeps the other on hold just in case.... I would stay away from this guy. If he is that imature I wouldn't want to be around him. I have been around guys like this before and it is a huge turn off when you are around them enough. Find another trainer.
2007-10-23 01:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen this question before to be honest. was this the joke about his dick (can you let us know the text of the joke??)
Anyway. The guy may fancy you. Why not suggest going out for the crack. see what his reaction is . If he says yes, than you know he might be interested and you can take it from there. if he says no, than no harm done and you know where you stand. Any way. be careful cos this guy sorta sounds strange and unreliable. Be good.
2007-10-23 01:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by gto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably only likes you as a friend and no more and he just don't know how to tell you because he probably thinks you like him allot that's what my ex boyfriend was doing to me he would call me and ask me if i wanted to go somewhere with him or do something and i would say yes then right before it was time to go do whatever it was he would call me and say that he cant make it then after a while i got tired of him always canceling and i told him that im done talking to him untill he tells me why he did the things he did and he finally came out and said that he just wants to be my friend and no more but just ask him whats going on and he might tell you
2007-10-23 01:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing with you. If I were you I would find someone else to get my training from. If you like him them just be blunt and tell him how you feel. If you are only talking to him for the training then I would move on. Men do not mature as fast as women. Either learn how to play better then he is or move on and find help from someone else.
2007-10-23 01:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by satch1911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your training elsewhere and avoid this person like the plague. This is how obsessions begin. He is going to be hard enough to avoid without playing games with him. Every warning light that your common sense remembers is going off and you're trying to ignore them because you want something that isn't worth your life. Don't be stupid.
2007-10-23 01:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by midnite rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trouble with you is that you're too easily bought. You'd rather put up with this guys bad manners, than to find some other way of getting your training. You're a taker and takers always get taken!
2007-10-23 01:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋