i would like to ask a cival question which happened . has any one knew of a women going to church to meet a man younger than her when that woman has children and a husband . to she was in her .40.s and she was after a man or boy her son.s age of.19. years old this woman well had a affair with him the religion i wont name . isnt that breaking commandments by god given to all to do such a thing like that honesty please this really happened thank you for your reply. on this again thank you /
2007-10-22 19:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
what ever happened to her vows in marrage towards her husband and she didnt feel she had done no wrong doing what she had did . again thank you all
2007-10-22 19:31:22 · update #1
i read the whole thing and to her she did nothing wrong in her eyes wonder why . adultry is a very bad thing to comitt. and going to church to see this boy you stated was her own son.s age is very sicking to me but let god deal with this both her as well this boy her son.s age have to answer to god not to say the isgrace she brought upon her marrage.and children read revelation.21.vs.5.6.7. on this matter. my opion?
2007-10-22 19:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, adultery is considered a sin, but there may be a lot of things about her circumstances that you don't know about.
A lot of things can go wrong in a marriage. Maybe she was physically or emotionally abused by her husband? Maybe she was no longer in love with him? There's a number of reasons that could apply to this woman's situation.
While you might not think that these reasons excuse her behaviour and you may consider her actions "immoral", you, nor anyone else, really has the right to judge her. Is that not God's place?? And does that not depend on whether she asks for forgiveness?
2007-10-22 19:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is breaking the commandments on many levels. But what can you do? Just forgive and pray for her. Depending on who she or he is to you, you can only move forward. Don't dwell on what has happened, just speak to them on how wrong infidelity is and that she needs to make a choice. No matter how bad it is at home or what her husband is not doing for her at home or what ever the case maybe, no one deserves to be cheated on. But in the same aspect, no one deserves to be judged upon there choices in life either. So again, I say forgive, pray, and be there for them to help them stop their wrong doings. Everyone makes mistakes in life, it just sucks that this is the mistake that they both chose to make.
2007-10-22 19:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by help me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe the age differences are specifically stated in the commandments, but then again, don't people make up the rules of religion as they go along.
( according to the time period)
2007-10-22 19:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Einsteininium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women at her age are sexually driven,maybe her husband isn't satisfying her needs,so she is looking for sex outside the marriage bonds,and picked a young man for this precise reason
2007-10-22 21:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by jammal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pt's not in the second set of commandments that god gave moses
2007-10-22 19:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nemesis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally your business. thanks for making it ours.
2007-10-22 19:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by eelai000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋