I contemplate suicide all the time. I can't help it. I feel so bad inside and people don't make it any better. I hate myself. Who can love me when I don't?
2007-10-22 17:02:39 · 6 answers · asked by Brandy U 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No, I haven't really talked to anyone about it. I have a hard time expressing myself verbally.
I'm agnostic, I'd feel real uncomfortable talking to a priest.
I've told mental health that I think about it but they pretty much told me that if I'm not attempting it or harming myself or anyone else than they wont send me somewhere to get help. Screw mental health, them people threw me around like a rag doll when I was going there to see shrinks.
2007-10-22 17:16:25 · update #1
I have found that if you give of yourself, your time, your concern your talents you will develop a love for those who you serve. I promise that. As you forget your self and focus on serving those who are more in need then you, and there are lots of folks who are worse off then you and need you, you will find joy and fulfillment and life will take on meaning and you will want your life to go on forever.
Get outside your self and focus on what you can do for others. It will help you and them.
2007-10-22 17:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by dire_st 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know how that is...but how old are u? I'm guessing ur still pretty young because many people go through this during their teen years and early adulthood. Who will love u? Well, u have to love yourself first. I know right now you feel like you are lonely and like you need someone there, but no one will be there for u until u learn to help urself. Take it as a learning experience and as a way to get stronger. When I went through this phase I had many people tell me that they cared, but even if you hear it from many people, many times we won't listen. Look deep inside and figure out what is really the problem, find a way to fix it and be proud of yourself for doing so. In this way you can begin to love yourself at least a little.
2007-10-22 17:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by chillycat69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hon....I'm there with you right now....I am probably much older than you and going through alot of physical changes as well as mental and it's very hard. I'm not saying it is worst than it use to be but just different. I have lived like I had for so very long..I wonder if I am able to survive the changes now. The battles just never seem to be over. Once one is done another just takes it's place. Maybe the two of us just need to forget about ourselves and concentrate on other people and things. I feel bad inside too. Day time isn't too bad but the nights can be the worst. Hang in there hon.... and so will I. It will get better... it has to.........
2007-10-22 17:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give as someone who had suicidal thoughts as a teenager is to focus yourself outward. Do not dwell on your fears and especially do not dwell on what you think others think of you. Volunteer for charity work on a part time basis or join a club or organization that does some kind of regular public service. The good you do will bolster your self-worth in YOUR OWN EYES by showing real results, and your fears will recede into the background. It took me a long time to understand that it doesn't matter whether anyone else approves of you, so long as you are doing the best you can in your own estimation. It seems easy to give up, but you have to wonder to yourself "what am I capable of?" You should test yourself and your ability to do good things and the good thoughts will begin to crowd out the bad ones.
2007-10-23 01:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Black Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions for your answer, Do you know your local help line? Have you talked with your dr. about this? Have you learned about coping skills and practiced strengthening them? Have you shared your thoughts with family or friends? Have you considered a medication to help get you through this time? Have you thought about talking with a minister, or pastor? Have you read about depression and the best ways to fight it?
People can love you regardless of if you love yourself, I know because I am loved..... It doesn't get you off the hook, so forget about it, you will hurt them if you act on this in the wrong way.
Don't suffer anymore and get help, all kinds of it, and some day you'll be able to be that help for someone else.
2007-10-22 17:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls don't commite suicide. A couple of days ago I had a dream that someone came and told me that one of my closest friends commited suicide. I remember crying and asking why he couldn't come to me before doing that (because I would have been there 4 him and help him with whatever he needed).
Luckily it was just a dream.
But it made me realize how HORRIBLE it would be to lose someone to suicide. It would ruin the lives of your friends and family.
You asked who should love you when no one does. You have to love yourself. Love yourself like no one else can!!
2007-10-22 19:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by it's_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋