I am getting married in dec to my soldier and i wont be able to move to germany until like jan or feb and i have never flown before and have no army relation yet. so once i marry him will like the army maybe pay for my flight there or will i have to pay it, and what germany like on base in baumholder, and what things can i take on the airplane and will i be able to take everything i have or will i have to leave things behind...???please help all you can i really need some understanding and rarely get to talk to my fiance because he is always in the field so if some of ya'll could answer my questions i would really love it and thanks!!!
2007-10-22 16:57:45 · 12 answers · asked by bubblehead_hw 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
1. Once you get married, you do have to get "command sponsorship" which is army for "we are going to make you fill out a lot of paper work before we pay for you to live here" (your husband will know about this and help you through it)
2. Yes, they will pay for your flight - if you are granted command sponsorship.
3. You take what you need right away on the plane (look up the limitations on any airline site) and you have your household goods shipped by the Army.
I'm married to an Army soldier and am moving to Germany in Dec. There are a lot of kinks, and you'll work them out. Just know that it may take some time for the whole command sponsorship process so expect that - do your best to get as much done while he's in the US as possible (especially your ID)
2007-10-23 16:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Katie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of the 16 countries I've been to, I'd say that between Germany and Switzerland, there's no other place comparable to the US in terms of quality of life and overall excellence. The government of the USA (I think) will cover an at least partial cost of the flight, but I'd need to know which airline. If you're on American Airlines, the military is extremely cooperative with them, and probably would be more than happy to cover something. I think the fare is somewhere around $500 assuming that you're just going one-way and have booked the trip in advance. Take everything you need there, and if ou're moving, then the army will certaintly assist financially if your fiancee is continuing active duty.
The part I'm not sure about is the part about you not yet having an army relation, but I think they'll accept since he's in it.
2007-10-22 17:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the plane ride will not cost that much if you book it now. The closer you get to the date the more expensive it will be. The army will not pay for your flight as you were not on your husbands orders. You will be issued your own set of orders once you have your EFMP screening and your command sponsorship. I am currently in Germany with my husband not far from where you will be. My advice is to learn some German before you get out here. Just the basics. As far as bring everything with you that would be impossible on the plane make sure you pack what you NEED!!! not the stuff you think awww thats cute and never wear it use it!!! As far as shipping i think they pay for you once you get put on his orders. I did my move all backwards so i paid for a lot of things luckly i only moved from England. My advice is to get your EFMP screening done before you come over. You will need to go to a military approved doc but your husband will be able to get you all the information. I will have a look on Monday when i go for my screening. You need the screening before they give you command sponsorship. you won't be able to get tricare until you are command sponsored, However none of this can you do until you are married so just be prepared. Also its not just about the paperwork you said that he is always in the field. Welcome to Army life i rarely see my husband and it sucks. if you need anything let me know drop me a line.
2007-10-22 22:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by british gurly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're not married yet? This is a big decision and you should take some time to consider it seriously. This isn't army wives, the TV show.
Take some time while he's away at training to get out and line a little bit. Sow some oats. Hookup with some civilian guys. You may just like the freedoms of a normal life. You mayc just meet someone you like more. If not, marry your guy after boot camp.
Also, consider the fact that with civilian men, they control their own destiny and can make a lot more money. Also, do you want to marry someone who will be away for weeks or months at a time?
2015-06-10 08:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a family lawyer so that you can establish clear rights regarding your child. Keep clear and concise records regarding how often he does (or does not) see your son, as well as child support. It is possible for him to block you taking your son to Germany, however, it seems unlikely that he would A: actually be able to and B: follow through with the process to do so. Even so, you have almost a year to make sure your T's are crossed and your I's are dotted and get a permenant order of custody with clear guidelines in place. Also, you should be prepared financially in case the court indicates that you must bring your son back to the states a certain amount of times a year for visitation. Good luck.
2016-04-09 23:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he is able to get your Command sponsored will the militray pay for anything. If he cannot get CS, all costs will be out of pocket and you will be subject to German laws regarding visiting( you cannot stay indefinitely).
without SOFA sponsorship, you will be facing an uphill battle. You need to pass an overseas screening as well. You cannot do ANYTHING until after you are married, so expect things to take more than a couple of months.. more like 6 if you do things by the book. Keep in mind that if he has less than 12 months left on his orders you will NOT be given permission to move over there.
2007-10-23 01:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baumholder is in what some would call the middle of no where. It is in a good place to travel out of for day trips though. the area is nice.It's not far from Landsthul and Kiaserslautern( K-Town).
Lived there for about ten years.
The Army will pay for you to go over but your man might have to extened his enlistment and tour.
Good luck to you bout and have fun.
I loved it in Germany.
2007-10-22 17:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
Have your soldier guy put you in touch with one of the wives there.
The military is very careful to keep the move from being too screwy.
I lived in Germany, near Baumholder for 6 years.
You are close to Paris, Berlin, England, Switzerland and the Mediterranean Sea.
You won't want to leave.
2007-10-22 17:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's probably a good idea for you to start finding info on your own and also ask your future husband for info packets for family members about to move to Europe, His unit should also be able to help you with the FAQ's, probably a good idea to update your passport or get one and all of your shots updated. Whether you live out in town,(the economy) or on base, there is a wealth of info you can check to make your travel as smooth as possible and your stay over there as enjoyable as possible. Good Luck!
2007-10-22 17:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by EddieX 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Baumholder? The armpit of Germany! Good luck to you!
2007-10-22 17:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Willie Wankerz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋