My dog died two days ago and yesterday i had to give another away because my parents hate her :( Im really sad right now and i cant make myself feel happy. Now i only have 1 dog left and its usually funner with 3 dogs. Im so sad and depressed. What should i do now?
2007-10-22 16:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Bluekygrrl 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
I asked if I can still visit the one I gave away, and I can, once in a while, like once every 2 months :)
2007-10-22 16:32:36 · update #1
I know how awful it feels to lose a friend. I am so very sorry for your loss. And I ma sorry that you had to give the other away so soon after your dog's death. I think that was wrong of them, but I don't know the whole situation.
All I can say is that I hope that let you find a good home for the one you gave away, and now...
I would focus all I have on the one you have left. He or she has to be hurting and feeling abandoned too. Animals feel loss in some ways, similar to they way we do.
Oh - I am so very sorry.
But for now, honestly, I can only see that spending more time with the one dog you have left will help him or her and I can only hope will help you.
You will never forget either of your other dogs. They will live in your heart forever. Let them flourish there. Love them, but don't take love from the one who is left by showing him/her how down you are. Best to you both!!! Take care!
2007-10-22 16:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by puppy.lover13 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to lose a beloved pet to death and just as hard to have to give one away, but remember that the 1 you have left just lost 2 friends also. You need to spend more time with it as it no longer has it's friends to keep it company. wait awhile until things calm down and feelings are more stable and then check with the parents about possibly adding another dog to the family.
2007-10-22 23:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by nashniki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best that you walk it off and move on and treasure every moment of being with this dog that you have. Trust me my family had a westie but we had to send him away because when school started we were busy but i didn't think so and i noticed that my grades started going down and i started not being that nice. We do get to see him every year for christmas and that is pretty much the best christmas gift every year is just seeing him safe and happy. Well, right now my sister's boyfriend's sister has him right now. but i'm just sayin to move on don't let it ruin your life.
2007-10-23 02:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Henry L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know the details involved but it would have been nice if you didn't have to deal with losing two of your dogs. I wish you could have dealt with losing your dog that died without having the extra grief of being forced to give another one up. As I said I don't know the details. Grief takes time. For now, focus on your remaining dog. He/She is probably dealing with the loss also. Try to give him/her lots of extra attention and give yourself time to recover from the intense grief that you experience at first. Best wishes.
2007-10-22 23:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Scooter 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are living at home you have to abide by the house rules. You will just have to heap lots of love on the sweetheart you still have. Show your parents that you can take good care of her, food; exercise, training and such and maybe one day you can add another baby to the mix.
Love the one you have; she probably missing the other two and she needs your attention while she grieves.
2007-10-22 23:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. I can't believe that your parents got rid of a dog cause they ' hated her ' How come they wouldn't be willing to work with the dog and make her the kind of dog that people would like to be around.. Hmmm.... Makes you think..
2007-10-23 03:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by DP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your doggy that is left as if it was his/her last day, show it all the love you can, i know how you feel i had mine taken away but by surprise i got it back , try and find out where the puppy you gave away is at and ask politely if you can visit, i'm sorrya bout your other doggy may he/she r.i.p =[
2007-10-22 23:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by torontoguy23 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are feeling so much pain.Hopefully some day you can have as many dogs as you want.For now just love to pieces the one you have left.
2007-10-22 23:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by gg4kk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you lost your dogs. Enjoy the dog you have now. Play with her and love her. She will help comfort you. That's what dogs do. I am sorry.
2007-10-22 23:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by mama woof 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋