just feel like they want things to be faster like after youve known them for about a day or two they want you to be dating them already and they say all the nice things to you, and even to the point of telling you that as if they feel that they like you already, i just cant stand that lie, i mean if he did really like me he would take the time to get to know me day by day, and that he would also give me the chance to converse with him intellectually and not just about hobbies or favorite music, and so yes i get tired of this kinds of men, who wouldnt take the time to take things slowly so i just get out of the dating scene and try to reflect on what i really want,since im not really looking for a boyfriend and i want something deeper then i guess there is nothing wrong with avoiding men at this point of my life, im 20
2007-10-22 15:53:15 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah ha -- finally an intelligent person tonight. Here's the thing -- that is all about "head games" and a lot of people are into that kind of crap -- it's called playing each other and no good relationship can come from that. It either is or it isn't. You are right -- you've got your life ahead of you....smart girl!!
2007-10-22 15:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
basically substitute your thinking behavior. start up by utilizing listening rather than talking for an entire day. Do issues with out being asked-open a door for somebody, greet the subsequent guy or woman you notice with a grin, bypass bypass to a chum or relative and in case you notice someplace try to be of information, ask if that they had like help with as a outcome and such. You do all this with out looking forward to something in return and you will like the way you experience. After following by means of for a definite quantity of time that is going to grow to be 2d-nature to you, and those around you're able to have a greater effective existence too. Now that is actual ability.
2017-01-04 07:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by brighi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHHHHH YEAH IT IS BUT THEN AGAIN YOU ARE KIND OF SMART BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT IN A RUSH TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AT 20 ........ TAKE YOUR TIME AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND IF YOU GET MARRIED THEN YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT INLAW PROBLEMS AND STUFF SO JUST STAY SINGLE FOR A WHILE AND ENJOY YOUR YOUTH WHILE ITS THERE !!!!!!
2007-10-22 15:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by LOULOU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever works for you hon. All men are different. Men are like snowflakes. Snowflakes with penises.
2007-10-22 15:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of the intrigue in the big game of love.
2007-10-22 15:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by sarah k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard to get is usually a turn off...
2007-10-22 15:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't "play" hard to get, BE hard to get!
2007-10-22 15:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋