It's my mom's birthday on Wednesday, but she and I just got in an
argument and I don't think I can say "happy birthday" to her or give her her gosh darn gift. I feel like just opening her door and shoving the gift in her face and going "happy fkn birthday". Should i just leave her gift on her bed after she goes to work and not say happy birthday to her, or should i just keep the gift for myself?
I feel really bad, but i really dislike her at the moment.
I put a lot of thought and I used my allowance money to buy her something she'd really like, but I don't want to see her happy. Should i give it away to someone else?
2007-10-22 15:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Now i feel really bad, thanks!
I LOVE my mom, i just don't like her sometimes, understand?
2007-10-22 15:50:22 · update #1
Dude, i just said i LOVE my mom, i never said ANYTHING about hating her. jeez! read it thoroughly next time!
2007-10-22 15:53:27 · update #2
Right now it sounds as if you are just angry and not happy with your Mom and it's probably over some small thing that doesn't really matter anyway. Think about it. Does your Mother really deserve this kind of treatment out of you? The woman that gave you life and has raised you and taken care of you since birth? Think of all the good things she has done for you in your lifetime. Give yourself some time to cool off and then sit alone on your bed without any interference from anyone or anything and really think about what all you and your mother have been through. I think that you will find with some good soul searching that whatever you are mad at your Mom for is not worth acting mean and hateful towards her. We all get angry at our mothers but when it comes down to it our moms are the only ones that will be there for us no matter what the circumstances. Moms will lay down their lives for their children. I'm a mother, I know. Forgive her, and give her a nice gift. And not only say happy birthday, but tell her how much you love her. Don't hold grudges, especially with your mom. You never know when something could happen and you would never have the chance to tell her that you love her or to say happy birthday again. This too shall pass! Good luck to you and your mother!
2007-10-22 15:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by SeaMistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember all the moments you LOVED your mom?... think about it i dont think it would be hard...I would give her the gift and a hug...the gift alone ways happy birthday and that you love her...remember you only have one mom and no one can ever replace her...good luck...
2007-10-22 23:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vonda J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave birth to you. Isn't that payment enough? Or the fact that she supports you and feeds you and puts clothes on your back. It's her birthday. How would you like it if on your birthday she screamed "Happy f*ing birthday! Thanks for the stretch marks a**hole" Hmmm not too fun
2007-10-22 22:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by natasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think maybe as a child there were times when you were a brat and she gave you a present anyhow ? it goes both ways
2007-10-22 22:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by I Love Jesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋