i am one of those ppl
i have been asked out by 6 descent guys and i turned them all down because i want this guy that i cant have cuz he's got a girl
why is that??
does this make me crazy?
2007-10-22 15:28:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it just means you're young. This is the time to feel this way. It's "the grass is greener on the other side" sort of syndrome. But, ask yourself this: If he would leave the girl he's with to be with you, does this give him any points for being a good, steady boyfriend for you? What if he cheated? Saw you on the side for a while before he broke up with the girl he's with now. Do you think this is a good sign that he would always be there for you?
Oh, why are the good ones always taken? You might surprise yourself, and even have a lot of fun, by giving one of those other "decent guys" another look.
2007-10-22 15:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it makes u crazy. But many people are like that with no sensible explanation. Give some other guys a chance. It might actually work out.
2007-10-22 15:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by queensruleall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i can relate to that, it's what we called merry go round love wherein you love a person but that person has another girl or guy so that's kinda tragic and be very painful experience, i ended up having "full of desperate sighs" hayyyyyy, why cant we end up to someone we truly love, as England Dan's song goes, " so sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along", better think of like it's his lost since he has another one hehehhee
2007-10-22 16:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by sillyspyrabbit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean you are crazy. If he has someone and he's happy, you must slowly but surely detach your feelings for him because it's the right thing to do. Also, you might start to like one of the guys that try to date you if you get to know them more. In time, that will help you get over that other male. It's only fair for yourself to be happy in life.
Everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be, it's meant to be... as I like to say... heh.
2007-10-22 15:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was just asked out by 3 guys. including one today but i still love my ex boyfriend. it drives me crazy and i just know i cant have him back. i turned down 3 really great guys just for this one guy i know i cant have. you just need to get over this guy and move on. try to get to know these other guys or people are eventually going to just stop asking you out because you keep turning people down.
2007-10-22 15:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a diffrent mind set, because its thrilling to a person, some people like the chase. Some people are just attracted to bad positions.
2007-10-22 15:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Delightful 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i don't think it's wierd at all that you turned those 6 guys down...why would you say yes to someone you don't even like that would have been settling...you obviously know what you want and it sucks that you can't have it! Girls and Guys always want what they don't have! im sorry that really sucks...
2007-10-22 15:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human nature.
2007-10-22 15:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was, probably even still am, the same way. the grass is always greener...
we tend to idealize something we don't have, dreaming it will solve all our problems, live will be so much greater if we have it, etc.
go out on the dates. have fun. filling up your free, daydreaming time with distractions may help you to get over your fantasy.
good luck!
S
2007-10-22 15:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by stf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u r, i havent been in that situation but u r crazy, just try sum1 else, but keep an eye on cause this dayz ppl aint serious TRUST ME
2007-10-22 15:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by feito lindo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋