i asked this girl to be my girlfriend whod id been friends with for like over 4 months. anyways i really like her and asked her if she want to be my girlfriend. shes been once my gf,,,but she broke up w/ me cuz she said she was confused and wanted 2 get to know me more, anyways i asked her again (cuz weve been hanging out as friends for a while) but she says that "shes confused right now and her mind is everywhere. what does that mean?
2007-10-22 15:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a woman says she is confused, as an answer to your question anwerable by yes or no, the woman's mind is not sure yet, she is not ready yet, she doesn't know what to do, she is afraid of losing you or she is afraid of having you.
My advice to you my friend is this, please give her enough time to think, give her enough time to decide what is right for both of you. And for the meantime while you are together as friends make sure that you won't hurt her feelings, show her some extra care and concern. Give her some roses and chocolates. Never take advantage over her. Good luck and God bless you!
2007-10-22 15:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by EDRO 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's means beat her to the punch and say yah know what i was feeling the same thing so i'm going to call it quits .....when a girl says she is confused , it could mean alot of things that are not positive
1. your not good in bed
2. there is no way in hell she can bring you hiome to her parents in short means (loser)
3. she just doesn't see any future with you so she nips it in the bud by saying the confused answer so you don't ask question
like honey what is it i can change ...makes it to complicated for her to finish her mission
4. tryin to be nice because she is into another dude
etc....you get it
2007-10-22 15:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dan M 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It usually means one or two things! 1. she's not sure enough or ready to make a decision 2. She likes you as a Friend but nothing further and is trying to let you down lightly in case you want more. Carry on talking give it time and see if she gives more of an indication on what it may be.
2016-03-17 00:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may mean that she's liking some other guy right now and she's waiting for him to ask her out or something and she's confused wether to wait for that guy or get back with you.
It may also mean that she don't want nothing with you no more and or she's thinking about it. hope this helps
2007-10-22 15:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, um... She might just be going through some tough times, and she needs her space. If you really like her, just give her some breathing room, and she'll come back. If she continues to act so distant, then I suggest you find someone else, cause it's no use waiting for someone who you don't know will come back.
2007-10-22 15:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by musicchickie94 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it means shes confused and she wants to get to know you, what else does she have to tell you. let her get to know you and give her a chance to think and dont ask her out for a while
2007-10-22 15:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by suga_c00kie25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she don't like you. Why would she be confused? Good luck
2007-10-22 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by firebirdstevev 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means to leave her alone, give her some space, and let her make the next move if shes interested.
unfortunately, theres always the possibility that she may not like you like that.'
2007-10-22 15:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by allie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not sure if she wants to date you. so just make her sure of it. she is feeling insecure. make her feel secured. talk to her. find out what is bothering her. show her that you care abt her, you really like her and you want to be with her. treat her really nice. be understanding. don't rush her. tell her you will wait for her to be ready. and be there for her as a good friend. she will be able to feel your good and your love. cheers.:)
2007-10-22 15:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by cheer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
means at this time she just wants to stay friends
2007-10-22 15:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by keebler13579_18 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋