The guy I've got a 'crush' on is amazing; I don't know anyone with as genuine a character. I want so badly to tell him I like him, but I don't want it to put a strain on our friendship, and I don't want to be rejected either. When is a risk worth taking, and should I take this one?
2007-10-22 15:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do decide to tell him, do it in a way that doesn't put a strain on him or your friendship. Just be like Well I kinda like you, but I'm not expecting anything and if you just wanna be friends then thats cool. If you don't make it awkward then it won't be, and its a risk that might really pay off.
2007-10-22 15:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by sri lanka s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv'e asked myself questions like that. The risks that i did take i wish i didnt and other i didn't i iwsh i did. I tke a risk because you never know the outcome it's a part of life. Life is made up in a bunch of moments shouldnt those moments be worth it to you. When you want to tell someone that you care for them then it;s always ganna come out or you'll drive yourself crazy, If he's a true friend but doesnt feel the same way he'll still be your friend and your not holding it inside anymore and if he tells we'll look what you got.
2007-10-22 22:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take that chance beacue there is also the risk of finding true love, living a blissfull life, of sharing memories and memories with another person forever. That is worth alot more than a small heart ache that soon fades... Im looking for what wont fade and i think i have found it...
Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all/.
2007-10-22 22:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by lirpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a risk is always worth taking... you will regret something you never did so much more then something you did. you should take the risk even if theres a chance of getting burned because theres also the chance you wont
2007-10-22 22:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by suga_c00kie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risk worth taking is when a friend asks you to do something nice for you and when you do she turns on you. then you realize something actually is wrong with her husband, and well you already got burned so why not?
2007-10-22 22:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by IDoToo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's worth taking because if you never risk being burned; you'll be cold forever.
2007-10-22 22:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the thought of the potential reward is more exhilerating and appealing than the fear and potential pain of the rejection. The answer to this determines the answer to whether you should attempt it or not. What are your true thoughts (feelings) here?
2007-10-22 22:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel so strongly about him, you should tell him.
I mean, you don't want to be left wondering what could have happened.
Grab him while you have the chance.
2007-10-22 22:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anabelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋