There's a girl that I started talking to since we haven't talked in over a year. She'd stare at me the whole time we never talked. Well I started back talking to her, and at first she'd just ignore me in person (we talked on messenger). If she looked at me, she'd have a shy fit; she blushes and looks away or bites her lip when she used to see me. Well she blushes occasionally when she sees me now, but not much. Well now she only talks to me when she wants something such as: homework help, me to carry something to a class for her, or school stuff etc. Today, I walked into the office where she's an assistant, and I didn't look at her and didn't speak to her cause I figured I'd ignore her now. Then I said something stupid on purpose as I walked out the door, and she laughed. Is she worth talking to or what since the only time she talks to me is when she wants something. Well sometimes, she says my name and smiles at me, that's about it.
2007-10-22 15:11:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She sounds super shy like she'd like to be your friend but she's too shy to talk to you since she doesn't know you very well. I'd (gently) persue and sort-of friendship with her- it sounds like she likes you she's just really really shy.
2007-10-22 15:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it looks like she was using things like homework help, asking you to help carry her things and stuff as a way to talk to you. She prob doesnt know how to without using something like that as a reason! I think she is just super shy. Are you shy around her aswell? Cos it sounds like both of you are just a little too scared to take the plunge and put yourself out there and say 'i like you'. You should do it. Someone has to right?
good luck!
2007-10-23 08:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she only talks to you when she wants something because she doesn't know any other way to start a conversation. Your way of getting back at her for making you feel used was pretty childish, don't you think? Next time you feel like a friend is taking advantage of you, tell them how you feel. Give them the benefit of the doubt that it wasn't their intention to treat you badly.
2007-10-22 22:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by missbeans 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are a girl (You are, right?), I would think she may be a lesbian! Blushing, lip-biting, or nervousness in general may mean she may like you a bit. Maybe you could try talking to her, even if she doesn't answer, and ask her if she does.
Hope this helped :]]
2007-10-22 22:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋