The guy had no job, was on welfare and would buy small gifts with his welfare check He never took me anywhere, he had no vehicle and he still dosent. When i broke up with him he started calling me gold digger and is still doing it and now hates women. Why do you think he did that?
2007-10-22 15:00:27 · 14 answers · asked by cfv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was not rich. Not even close. He lived off the government.
2007-10-22 15:06:25 · update #1
he is placing blame for his loss on to others...ie.."cause of women..i have no money"...
instead of being responsible enough to get off his duff and go find a job..or go to college on a student loan.
he clearly has issues deep within himself..you are far better off without him. And, try...not to take anything he says to heart.
He has no idea what the real world is like.
2007-10-22 15:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just upset. He probably loved you alot if he spent the small amount he got each week on gifts for you, so obviously he'll be a little hurt.
Just ignore him. It'll die down after a while, and when men are hurt we usually just say anything to get women hurt back. It's our nature...Horrible but true.
2007-10-22 22:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by r3alrage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy was obviously hurt, lacked confidence,and self-esteem.When you broke up with him, in his mind,he felt that you were doing it because he could not afford expensive things for you, which were the things that you liked.Hence, the gold digger label and by extension, any women.He apparently liked you some and was devastated when you left him. People say and do strange and weird things when they are hurting and are in pain.This guy is no exception.
2007-10-22 22:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, cause he's stupid and crazy. illlll u betta be glad u broke up with him. how dare you leave such a stud? lmao. wait....what u get as a gift? a gift card to the 99c store? all the bulbs u need for the month. wow, thats too funny. do you realize this man probably sold his food stamps to het u mcdonalds. dont be selfish and go get ur boo. lol.
2007-10-22 22:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Best Mom!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you broke up with him due to his situation when in reality most women wouldn't date him in the first place due to his situation, I wouldn't worry about it too much he's probably trying to guilt you into taking him back and trying to make you feel bad. I'm sure when he has a job and act's like a real man women will show him some more interest and he won't hate them anymore either.
2007-10-22 22:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a bum and a loser and wants to manipulate you.
Unless you broke up with him for those reasons then YOU were wrong? Why? Because if you decided to date him knowing even part of these things about him you should have accepted him for this way and never ever had expected him to change.
2007-10-22 22:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're going to get a lot of mean, obvious answers, sweetie.
I'll tell you this though. I think he already was a misogynist. Why else wouldn't he have tried to get a license AT LEAST once he became interested in you...? He made no efforts to improve himself. Sad.
2007-10-22 22:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was out for a free ride and he doesn't like losing it if he hates women so much maybe he should find a man.Don't take his crap and sick to your guns.
2007-10-22 22:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by beebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you dated a guy that was obviously rich...you are a golddigger
2007-10-22 22:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Pieter K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had an inferiority complex.
2007-10-22 22:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋