I am SO over being single. EVERY single one of my friends has a boyfriend. I feel so left out and even today somebody said "Sara, you should go out with ****. You look so lonely all the time and you need some lovin'" But i don't know how to get guys to like me/ask me out. I really want a boyfriend. but how can i speed up the process?
2007-10-22 11:22:26 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask a really good friend who has known you a long time to start introducing you to guys. If all the people you know are dating, you can do quite a bit of networking that way!
2007-10-22 11:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't try so hard. Men really don't like a clingy or desperate girl. Ask your self what it is you want out of a relationship.Ask your friends make a list of all your good and bad qualities and interview prospective mates. Compare there likes and dislikes to your list. Based on that you can draw a conclusion as to who would be more compatible with the beautiful person you are. Always ask straight forward questions. And be prepared to answer them honestly. Never give out too many details on a first date and never under any circumstances talk about sexual encounters until you have been dating for several months. That is a sure fire way to have a serious boyfriend. Take your time and don't jump the gun and also keep your options open. Don't worry too much. A great boyfriend can eventually become an even better husband. Everything I have put here is from my own personal experience and I am Happily married for what now seems like forever and counting. So take it easy and Smile. Nothing turns a man on more than a truly happy smile.
2007-10-22 11:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by MariClaude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sara listen i was through this two.i will give u 2 gold advices and these r from an expert and will never coast u like cosmetics or else.
1st keep your face with smiling feature as the smiling face is 10s times more atractive and joyful..dont show your teath no hun just show the bless on your lovely face.
2nd never make others think that u r waiting some 1 or in need for some 1 or cheep or any of this stuff.deal with all as u got a march of boys run after u this will make u so valuble.
next hun dont and dont envy any 1 of haveing a frnd bec tomorow many will envy u of haveing more than one.....mop your eyes look at the miror ad look how much u r beutiful with this smile..btw i would the 1st asking u aout if i am there..good luck sweety
2007-10-22 11:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by bldysurgeon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure that you love yourself first and foremost..you are suppose to be the most important person to yourself..then make sure that your personality is a good one..no one likes to hang out w/someone that maybe crabby, or just down right rude..then your habits shouldn't be toooo bad..as far as farting in public, hacking and spitting, talking over people, you know, just bad habits..you want a man to know that your cool and you are a lady..stuff like that is so attractive to men..and you should be fun to hang out with..it wouldn't hurt if you liked sports as well..especially Football( Go Bears!!!) anyway, if you don't like sports, at least accept the fact that a man may like this stuff, and lots of guys spend time either watching sports, or playing it..I mean all else fails, there are legit places that do fix you up with pple..I don't mean finding love in the chat rooms :) but looking for those professional places, that do do the job of finding pple love..Come on, you think you're the only one looking for love? It'll happen, when the big guy upstairs sees it fit...you just have to be patient..your time will come when it's suppose too..praying wouldn't be a bad thing either.. :)
2007-10-22 11:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by rozzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because all your friends have a bf it doesn't mean that they are 100% happy or better off than being single. Listen closely and they will tell you about all the drama and little stupid problems with their bf's. Wasn't the story about slow but steady wins the race?
On the other hand, if guys aren't asking you out you should ask them out. That way you are in control and you are the one that's picky. Why would you wait for them to come pick you? If you really want something badly, you should go for it.
Good luck
2007-10-22 11:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now a days its not uncommon for a girl to ask a guy out or if they want to dance or even go for a wal.Step up the procsess by being a little more of a risk taker,i did say a little,some times you can't wait around for some to find you some times you have to seek that someone out yourself.Go online,maybe,i'm not very religous,but i met my wife at church,i would have never guessed that could happen.Just be safe,ok
2007-10-22 11:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by jasonbatla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna tell you about a magic trick to your problem. What is it? It's called none other than the SMILE! Thats all you women need the rest is up to us men just lay back and relax and be yourself. When you smile to someone it's a sign of body language saying "hey there, why don't you come over here". It serves as a type of an introduction and allows us guys even to approach you women easier. this is a cheat all should know both men and women.
2007-10-22 11:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Plucker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a lot of guys like you but darent ask you out .You must take down this barrier and will see the difference at once.Dont ever think that guys only want a woman for sex that is part of it sure,but consider the time in doing that act as apposed to spending all their time with you.Makes the mind boggle Ay.Let your real personality come to the front then it will be problem solved,as simple as that.Yes, I am smiling in typing this you silly girl of course zillions of men want you.
2007-10-22 11:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by realdolby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can speed the process by taking action and doing the action...and no matter how many times you might get rejected, keep on keeping on.
My b/f's friend did this, he hit on every attractive girl at the bar when my b/f spent time with him. Years later, he found out his friend was now dating a NYC fashion designer (model-like girl) and have long-term relationship. But one thing my b/f noticed about his friend, he took action and didn't worry about rejection, just kept trying until something clicked.
It means you have to put your ego in check and realize the more you put yourself out there, the more you have a chance to find the one for you.
This can work for a girl too! Men might find it flattering!
2007-10-22 11:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Blousou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in too much of a rush. A boyfriend is a full time job. Are you really ready to clock in and never clock out? Just date as many people as you want and try to pick the right one. But, to get that women think they have to dress like sluts and show what they are working with. That is not the cast just continue to be yourself and if a guy is interested he will try to talk to you.
2007-10-22 11:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Pinki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋