I am 18, kind of a dork, everyone says im mad pretty but boys don't really like me..... how do i get them to like me
2007-10-22 11:18:57 · 25 answers · asked by !i a m c o ol ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself!!!! dont be fake towards them
2007-10-22 11:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is nothing wrong with being a dork. Just be happy and smile:) If you are "mad pretty," they are probably just shy around you. Why do you say that boys don't like you? Have you tried talking to them? After you have spoken with them do they say, "I don't like you"? I didn't think so. Just go up to guys that you like and start talking to them.
I always like to recommend this book, even thought it isn't specifically geared towards attracting the opposite gender:
http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671723650
2007-10-22 18:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be somebody you aren't. But if do want to change wear cute stuff like:
mini skirts
small tight tops that show your figure.
skinny jeans
things like that.
DONT dress slutty!
Guys like girls with a good body.
Hair is also really crucial. Guys like when girls have their hair down. Good smelling hair is a big turnon.
You need to be fun to be around.
I really can't tell you what to do. You really have just got to be yourself. someday a guy will like you just the way you are.
2007-10-22 18:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Hailee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a lot of boys to like you? Why do you want to attract that kind of attention? What would you do if a lot of guys like you? Date them all?
Just be yourself. I'm sure there are guys that like you but are too shy to approach you. Eventually one of those guys will have the courage to go up to you, but for now, just be yourself. If you have to change/alter any part of you just so a guy would "like" you, he probably likes you for all the wrong reasons...
...which means heartache for you.
2007-10-22 18:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Natsumi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a boy magnet and i'm not even pretty i just have 3 simple rules
* don't smell bad
* be comfortable with yourself
* be yourself
Follow these rules and you'll be a guy magnet in no time
even if you do act like a dork when guys see your really comfortable with yourself they'll like you, just don't get on their nerves
2007-10-22 18:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if they dont like you for who you are then so be it...dont be silly and try change your personality or looks to try pull a bloke... im sure you are very pretty and have a great personality.. the right bloke will come along...i dont class myself as bein the best looking person in the world and i defo wasnt one of those girls every bloke fancied in school, but im with my boyfriend 2 years now and he loves me for who im am not someone i pretended to be 2 years ago
you'l get your turn we all do.x.x.x.
2007-10-22 18:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore everything that other girls suggest- in fact you can pretty much do the opposite. Also, consider asking questions in the same persona that you answer them with.
2007-10-22 18:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try to change the way you dress. Don't dress very slutty or anything, but just try to spice up your wardrobe a little bit. Hope that helps.
2007-10-22 18:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything sexual with them, its not worth it. If you want to be liked, be interesting. Get your own life, your own hobbies, it can be anything but preferably one where you have a chance of meeting guys--sports for example, or some interesting field of study.
2007-10-22 18:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop using the word "mad" when it's not needed could be a good start.
2007-10-22 18:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by BT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about 'getting' boys to like you. If they can't like you for who you are then you don't need them. If you become anyone other than yourself, then you lose your identity. The right one will come along. Just be patient.
2007-10-22 18:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by ajkr_1903 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋