There is a person who has been appearing in and out of my dreams for years. I just had another dream with him in it last night. He used to be sort of short and chubby when I was in 8th grade (like most boys) but has now grown to be 2-3 inches taller than me and sort of skinny (I've been dreaming of him that long.) He has blonde hair, but the thing that freaks me out the most about him is that I CAN NEVER SEE HIS FACE. I kissed it once because we went out in one dream, to 6th street in Austin, and he took me to go see a band (I forget which, but I think it was modeled after the Fratellis) but I never see it. Its not missing, its not a black hole or empty, its just not there. I don't know if you can get that but its the clearest way I can put it. In other dreams (in chronological order, from about age 12-13) we've gotten married, moved in together and helped me raise a baby named Chaya (an actual name, I looked it up even though I never saw it before), and we now just go out and talk.
2007-10-22 10:09:31 · 3 answers · asked by Roma 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
The dreams are mostly realistic, there are no purple dragons or dead people.
What do you think this recurring guy represents? I am not attracted to blondes, I am mostly into Hispanic guys and Central European guys.
Also, do you think I should see a pro about this? Is it normal to have imaginary people pop in your dreams all the time?
2007-10-22 10:14:33 · update #1
Some people who believe in past lives would say your dreaming of one , Some who believe in predictions of the future would say this is the man your going to marry. I say maybe these are qualities in the guy you want to choose for your life mate dont rule out blondes just cause your not into them now, sometimes you find someone and they are nothing like what you think your type is and they turn out to be the one. As far as the name of the kid you coulda heard the name and not remember hearing it and when the subconcious mind took over it said hey thats a cool name for a kid! Whatever you choose to believe I dont think that ya need pro help unless one or both of ya turns evil and starts planning the demise of the world or something! Just enjoy the dreams and ya cant see his face cause the mind doesnt work that way.
2007-10-22 10:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by pinkleo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine very few women imagine themsleves marrying a blond man but many still do. On the other hand something might go bad in the series of dreams which might lead you away from men which would make you think of him. It's a strange thing. Lol maybe you went to bed one night just after seeing the milky bar kid on TV. Oh no hang on that is not sold in your country is it. I think what people imagine as the perfect partner can often be from the opposite of something. Like they try and imagine the exact opposite of someone.
2007-10-23 19:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by MR CNR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked about dreams where you don't know the people but in your dreams you do. I was told that it means you are not happy with situations or people in your life and you wish to escape. Maybe this represents you wishing to have some kind of boy or boyfriend in your life. As you age he will age too, but it will be with what your inner self wants.
You have invented an entire new life in this dream. Is this baby both of yours or is it just your baby. Could represent this boy as accepting all of you and willing to work with you through all you problems. Baby could represent unconditional love or wanting to take care of something. Marriage a partnership, and talking just wishing to have someone understand you
2007-10-23 00:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋