Do you guys think that if a breakup occurs real love can never bloom between both people? My girlfriend broke up with me and yet after 2 days she txt me asking to see how I was doing, then 2 days after that she called me to see what was going on and if I was alright. Sort of like a "I was suppose to see you today and I didn't so I called to see what you were doing" type of phone call. So what do you guys think? could real love and marriage ever occur between us two?
2007-10-22 09:39:07 · 16 answers · asked by Class 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women are very strange. they break up with you and they are expecting you to do something to impress them. you never know what they really want. Let her go and find someone who has some respect for you.
2007-10-22 09:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by nickelbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up, whether or not a second chance with this person might go well...many things are possible and some couples are on-again/off-again continuously. They love one another but just aren't a good match, but have a hard time letting go.
In time you will know whether or not something can rekindle between the two of you, if you both desire to try.
2007-10-22 16:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you just need to communicate more. And by communicate I mean listen and share ideas, be interested in each other's minds intimately and in what makes each other happy, what is it you do that causes a fight to the point of breaking up? Are you being interesting enough? You just need to communicate better, she seems to care about you if she's calling up like that and if you care about her I'm sure you can make it work. And I know I've said it already several times but you must communicate your feelings, be open with her about what you like and don't like, what frustrates you and what you can both do to accept differences and work together lovingly and she needs to do the same. You both need to respect each other's feelings and differences if you want it to work. If your differences are too far from each other and there's no way you can accept her ideas because of strong feelings opposing them and you can't work it out with loving communication then maybe you should move on. I hope it works out for the best of you both!
2007-10-22 16:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't completely gone yet, kinda being wishy-washy. Whatever led her to sever ties wasn't because she doesn't want a guy who is a lot like you.
I would actually be myself here. If I was hurt I'd let her know. If you think you can do better, get another girl today. But she asked for room, so give it to her! She should be left alone for awhile so she can introspect on whether she wants you or not.
2007-10-22 16:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why you broke up. if you broke up over something that seemed serious at the time but is now trivial, it's possible that you missed each other enough to realize what a great thing you had between each other. if you broke up for something serious, like cheating, then i dont think so because there are some gaps that cant be overcome.
2007-10-22 16:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by theloverofwords 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you were trying to go too fast in your relationship. It sounds like, from what you said, that you still like her and that she still has an interest in you. The future is not predictable, but there may be a chance that your relationship might resume. Just don't press too hard, the nature take its course.
2007-10-22 16:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason for breakup and who initiated it.. and its totally upto u guys how u take it further. Yes there are chances for u guys to get married.
2007-10-22 16:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sparks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what she broke up with u for! i don't know y she would break up with u and then keep calling u. maybe u should ask her what she wants...if she wants to be back together or just be friends!
2007-10-22 16:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe - sounds like she is just having a hard time adjusting to life without you more than she is in love with you though.
2007-10-22 16:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you're experiencing is common.
you guys occupied much of each other's lives and suddenly it's over, but that's hard to adjust to.
most likely you'll try to get back together again....just to realize it doesn't work..again.
it's a vicious circle.
2007-10-22 16:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋