i want to get inside his head and understand what makes him tick
2007-10-22 06:09:09 · 42 answers · asked by ladyluck4chico 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
OK..if you have been going out for more than a year..seriously dating...then say something like I love you, where is this going? DO you see a future with me? If he just yeses you to death or says he is not ready, tell him thats ok but you expect to be enegaged in another 2 years.
2007-10-22 06:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST how old are you? If your 25 tell him You have a job in another city and there nothing to keep you here. Younger there are a lot of things you should try first. Like a job, home,savings, and life. You should work some place for at least 5 years to save money. Have a home of your own. Decorate it, enjoy having a lot of fancy parties. Don't get involved in relationships that hold you back. Go on a girl vacation or cruise. Live before your get stuck.enjoy your single life before marriage. Then after your marriage do a lot of different things to enjoy one another.
2007-10-22 06:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by DEBBIE P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to try to get him to ask your hand in marriage then there is an issue. You would not want to marry someone you have to convince to marry you. As long as you are being yourself and loving to him things will happen naturally. The ultimate expression of love is to allow the person the freedom to choose what they will. You will be insecure in the relationship, by trying to make things happen, because then you will think he does things because you make him somehow and not loving you on his own with his own free will! Just think how it would feel to have someone chase after you and be eager to ask you!
One good thing you can do to make sure he knows you love him and what you want is to talk about his feelings on marriage, you, love and his future. (Don't ask him to marry you though). Try to speak hypothetically (indirectly). This should bring up some good, honest answers for you and understand better where the relationship is going!
by the way, it's spelled: Engaged
Love, Amedeo
2007-10-22 06:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by amedeobianchi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a world of difference between trying to understand him and trying to change him into what you want. The first is hard, the second is impossible.
Look at his life, the way he lives. Does he look like he wants to get married? Does he talk about it? How he wants kids and a regular job and a little place in the suburbs? How old is he?
He might not want to get engaged. If you do - move on.
2007-10-22 06:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Richard T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on valentines day. 2008 is a leap year so traditionally its the only time when a woman can ask the man. He can only say yes or no. Best of luck. If you manage to get inside his head, you will be the first. Many women try and never succeed.
2007-10-22 06:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dory 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are talking about engaged? You really can't make someone get engaged to you in less you ask them yourself. If things are going good and things are not going to the next level. I would talk to him to explain my feelings and and then ask him the samething. I give a relationship 2 years and if I am not engaged then I would dump him and move on with my life something better will come along.
2007-10-22 06:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Teah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard this on the radio. Ask your man What he thinks about you? He should give you answers like, "I think your sweet, I think you are beautiful" Then ask him How he feels about you? And then he will give you answers that will force him to think. He should say something like "I feel you could be the one" or "I love you."
If he comes up with some corny answers for the "I FEEL" question he's not feeling you like you feel about him. Me and my boyfriend's birthdays are 2 days apart and I will be asking him that on my birthday. I hope it goes well.
Also, don't force it. I forced it once. Bought a ring and everything for this guy I loved. He lied about it the first chance he got. I mean he said it was a promise ring, told someone else it was a inheritance from his dead grandfather. i mean..... that pissed me off. I pawned it. LOL... but don't force it sweetie. If he loves you, he will come around.
2007-10-22 06:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will getting engaged enable you to get inside his head and see what makes him tick? Shouldn't you already know these things before marriage? Your reasoning to wanting to get engage is lacking.
2007-10-22 06:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he the "one"? Are you sure you want to the spend the rest of your life with him? Do you think you can be with him through hard times and good times? In sickness and in health, rain or shine, times of plenty, and times of nothing? If you are absolutely sure you want to marry him then ask him. Propose to him if you reallyw ant to be engaged. But just to let you know, sometimes being engaged isn't all it's cracked up to be. Being married and engaged is ALOT of work.
2007-10-22 06:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you've dated, how old you are, and where you are in life (if you want to go to school, change jobs, etc). but if you've dated for a while (1-2 yrs), you should ask him where you see things going? if he's iffy, and is not sure, then ask if he sees the two of you spending your life together? if not, then say that maybe it's better to move on and find someone who will commit to you.
2007-10-22 06:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Alyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋