my step mum h8s me she calls me all sorts of names(im not sayin what) but she makes me feel really bad and ugly. She has children with my dad and shes horrible to my dad to.Weve tried to move out but the council wont house us! Anyway my dad also wants to stay with her because of their children. My rooms even been taken away frm me 2 use as a junk room.The thing tht gets 2 me is me & my step mum used 2 get on b4 my bro n sisters were born.My sister thats 7 also treets me like dirt + hits me.My stepmum treats us like slaves.Im 13 n feel like my lifes over. Help!
2007-10-22 05:04:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your school counselor, the principal, or another administrator at your school. They'll be able to help you, and if the situation warrants it, notify the proper authorities for you. Nobody should have to endure abuse.
2007-10-22 05:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by peroxidekween 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First your life is not over. You have a hard road to walk. First thing you have to get your brother and sisters on your side. You have to try to be nice to them NO MATTER WHAT. Tell them they look nice and encourage them. After a while they will start to stick up for you . Remember you are there until you are 18. then you can be on your own. Sounds like you are in a special group where others rule. If you need to leave when you are 18 please use the Internet to find help close to you. There are people who will help you.
2007-10-22 05:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by DEBBIE P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I couldn't wait until I was old enough to leave the house. Do you have a family member that you could go and live with? Talk to someone at school or a trusted family member about it. You shouldn't have to put up with this much longer. I have been there and understand how you feel. Good luck.
2007-10-22 05:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take over the junk room little by little. Start stowing the stuff up in the attic or garage little by little. Go through and toss out the junk little by little. Get it to where you can sleep in there.
You do your chores and studies as best you can, just to stay out of trouble. If you can't get any peace around the house, go to a friend's house to study.
Sounds like your step-mom is in over her head with rugrats, and probably needs to see a doctor about extended post-delivery depression.
The 7 year-old needs to be put in her place. Warn her first... then if she hits you, you hit her back. If she says bad things to you, then you tell her that you won't have anything to do with her if she is going to be a brat like that... then remove yourself from the situation. Girls go through a couple of sassy stages like that. You can't walk on eggshells around these brats.
2007-10-22 06:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you manage him as though he have been your very own, then manage him as though he have been your very own. What could you do if your organic baby behaved this form? i'm a stepmom, and while my stepkids are vacationing, I manage them purely as I do my very very own toddlers. they're in my homestead and could comprehend it. My son is 3 and while he throws suits like that for no longer getting his way, I tell himt o bypass to his room. I say that I dont desire to ought to look at him performing that way. while he sees that i'm no longer paying any interest to his outburt and that it is not getting him everywhere, he stops. Plus it drives him loopy that he cant have the little meltdown in front of me. Or, it relatively is advisable to objective putting a timer for 5 minutes, on the grounds that he's 5 years previous and telling him he has to stand nonetheless and quiet for 5 minutes and save resetting the timer if he starts off throwing a greater healthful. as quickly as he could be calm the completed 5 minutes, you are able to refer to him approximately what he needs (that grew to become into making him throw the greater healthful) and why or why no longer he could have it. good success to you!!
2016-10-07 09:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel its like haveing everything in the world taken from you and you dont know why i wen threw the same thing forever but both my step parents were like that .. have you talked to your mom about anything ... what about your dad i learned from my boyfriend he the person that always told me that thing would get better and not to fight with them it would only make problems worse and when they say thing to put you down you need to try as hard as you to told a smile on your face .. ok
if you ever need to talk you can e-mail me ok
i hope things get better and they will i promise...
2007-10-22 05:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Erica Maire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like abuse, so if it is tell your dad to get you out of there before it gets worse or call a local organization to help you
2007-10-22 05:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness... You need to get some help. I am so sorry this is happening to you.Call Social Services right now.
2007-10-22 05:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh been there ! Not fun! Thats sad! you can come and live with me! im in michigan and we have 4 kids!
2007-10-22 05:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg im sorry that sounds horrible, maybe you should talk to a guidance counselor or teacher at school. theirs no need to live your life that way
2007-10-22 05:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋