met a guy in July, We ended up hooking up, i got his #, never called,I knew he wanted nothing serious. 3 months later i contacted him thru myspace, he said we should meet up for drinks. we did the other night. i got really drunk and acted stupid. He had said earlier in the nite hed fix my car. Next day, i texted saying, can you help me with my car still? he said, yes and he did help. He told me i had acted kind of crazy the night b4, but he laughed. He still has more of car to work on, but made it seem like he was really busy and woudnt be able to do it till next week. I went home,didnt hook up with him,but he thought i was going to stay. He said, ill call you next week. I feel a little bad that i havent heard from him. I mean my friend kept telling me he would ask about me, tell me he said hi, etc. he doesnt seem interested whatsoever! I texted him 2nite saying hi, asked about car. He wrote back immediately, said yes, going to watch game, ill call you tomorrow. I dont want to bug him
2007-10-22 02:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i am definitely getting the vibe that he's not interested. I'm frustrated because my friend kept telling me he was asking about me a couple times after, i added him to myspace, he suggested we meet up, HE suggested helping with my car..then i dont hear from him for 5 days. I know he has other thigns to do...but it's clear that i'm basically not in his mind. I think if i havent heard by tomorrow night...i'm done.
2007-10-22 02:44:47 · update #1
I dont think you should be annoyied about this guy at all..
Please help answer my question?? thanks!!
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2007-10-22 02:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the "prime time" to sit back & wait! Put a date in your mind... if you haven't heard from him by such & such date - then find someone else to fix your car & move on! As for what he is thinking? - Who knows, he surely doesn't right now. But please let me say this... If you met him back in July & nothing transpired, then he was not that into you & neither were you him! If you are now trying to hook up, & fixing your car is part of the deal, then more than likely he's a nice guy who doesn't want to break a promise, however - he doesn't know how to go about fixing your car without getting "involved". One of my bestfriends & I have a rule when it comes to guys - if you don't hear from them within 48 hrs of the last contact - erase them from your phone & move on!
2007-10-22 02:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that us girls always do is OVER ANALYZE things when it come to guys. Just relax, take a deep breath. I'm sure he really is just busy and if he's watching the game then of course that is more important than anything else (in a guys mind). Give him 2 or 3 more days and if you don't hear from him just text him a "hey, whats up?" and see if he replies.
2007-10-22 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling and textin, if a guy really likes u, he will have no problem calling u. Im going thur a same situation, i called him and left him a message and he never called me back its going to be 2 weeks this thursday, this is the 2nd time i ever called him and we been dating each other since 4th of july, guys are weird, Girls shouldnt have to call guys, if he wants u trust me he will call u, and dont always be available its just makes u look cooler, heyy read this book it help me out a lot, he's just not that into you. GREAT BOOK
2007-10-22 02:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout' uhmmm... I heavily can not think of of none and that i've got been in this question for like 5 minutes lol yet no longer all adult males have an analogous features so i can not truly supply you an answer
2016-12-15 06:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got things to do besides work on your car...
especially since you ignored him forever in the beginning.
He probably thinks you are only interested for the mechanic work....
2007-10-22 02:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't sweat it. if he is interested he will call you the next time he wants to see you. don't bother him again for a while. if he is interested he will let you know.
2007-10-22 02:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋