So I'm new to the school this year...I'm kinda shy..but I'm working on it.
Well anways...last year [I was new to the school too] but alot of people [and alot of guys] talked to me.
But this year, hardly any guys do. And when they do, it's something about school, or whatever it is that we're doing at the time.
I have friends, but I want guys to notice me.
Last year, I just wore a t-shirt and baggy-ish jeans, and alot of guys talked to me..but this year, I dress nicely [not dressed up or anything, but not like last year]..and guys don't..
I know you're going to say "You go talk to them." Well, like I said...I'm working on that =)
What's wrong? Anything else I should do?
2007-10-22 01:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably seemed more approachable last year when you were just in jeans and a t-shirt. Maybe you are not relaxed enough and guys sense the tension. Just relax, try dressing down a few days and see what happens.
2007-10-22 01:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by jimmattcait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being yourself ;) Keep wearing those t-shirts and baggy-ish jeans. Maybe that suites you better than dressed nicely. Try it for a few weeks and see if it works.
Now logically maybe they are shy as well and you know that sometimes talking about school or whatever you are doing at the time is probably an excuse of them to get to talk to you. ;)
Good luck!
2007-10-22 09:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by crishu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. It is depending on where you live a seasonal thing. The school year probably just started and a lot of kids are adjusting to the new school year.
I am sure by the time spring/summer time comes around, and it is warmer out, the boys hormones will start jumping around and will be back talking to you in no time.
2007-10-22 08:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're new to the school. Take your time. Don't compromise yourself because these new people don't see you right away.
2007-10-22 08:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wat guys ae weird like that i g2 school or even to the store looking like crap not even having having my eye brows done and my hair done and i have curly hair u could image how that mess is looking and they look and try to talk 2me u what jus pay no mind to it cuz if u do most guys would be like oh who someone wants attention and u shouldnt be one of those girls
2007-10-22 09:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self.... already you said you changed from last year... you just have to comfortable in the skin your in and youll your be covered in confidence which guys love!
2007-10-22 09:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. no pretentions, no inhibitions, just yourself. i wish you all the best!
2007-10-22 09:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by ilovexocolat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋