Are you one of those who like to take help from others but when your turn comes you are not ready to help and are you aware that's not fair atall?
2007-10-22 01:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by A Yahoo User 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Life isn't fair. I do not accept help from others based on the assumption that I will be required to give it in turn, but on the basis of need. That said, I do give help to others as well as receiving help. Of course, I don't keep a tally of who has given more or received more help either. It might not be balanced, but I am not particularly concerned about that.
2007-10-22 01:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by detailgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to give help but know the type you are speaking of and can spot them a mile off. I don't offer those types my help anymore as not only are they unlikely to reciprocate they generally aren't even appreciative of the help they've been given. It's like they expect it.
2007-10-22 08:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Choqs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I'm the opposite. I hate it when I need to ask for help, but I'm always willing to help others if I can.
2007-10-22 09:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by EvilWoman0913 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm usually the one offering help. If I need help and someone offers, that's great. If I need help and no one offers, I'll ask outright for assistance.
2007-10-22 09:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lady G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I am first in line to help ready or not.
2007-10-22 09:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love helping others and rarely ask for help from others--unless I can pay for their help.
2007-10-22 10:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the opposite. i need to learn to take help.
2007-10-22 08:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by emmybob3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I help others when I can.
2007-10-22 08:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by JLM 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not me, but my sister-in-law is that way and she is very frustrating to deal with!
2007-10-22 08:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Chaashni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋