For the last 2 weeks my mom and dad have been constantly arguing over stuff, and I am getting tired of it. On Friday I stayed at my grandpas and grandmas house because I am sick of listening to my mom and dad fighting all the time. What am I going to do.
2007-10-22 01:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them how you feel. Whatever they're arguing about is something that's between them. But the way they're going about resolving their issue is having a negative effect on you. They need to get some perspective and they need to be made aware that they are not the only ones who are upset. Hopefully by you making them realize what they're doing, they'll try to find a better way to fix things. If that doesn't work you could ask your grandparents to talk to them. That may help them realize that things need to change. Best of luck to you.
2007-10-22 02:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try some damage control with your parents.
I would sit them both down and let them know how you feel about them fighting all the time. Then I would tell them that they're not really hurting each other, it's you they're hurting essentially. Plus it's gotten to the point where you feel the need to leave the house and stay somewhere else. And you don't think that is fair of them to put you in that type of a position.
Tell them you love them both very much, but they need to solve their issues by talking to each other like mature adults. Then tell them if they can't get along then maybe they need to be apart for awhile to think about things and to collect their thoughts.
Divorce sucks, but sometimes it's the only answer. I think you need to be honest with them and tell them the truth.
2007-10-22 01:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would ask them that whatever they are fighting about is for them to try and not do it in front of you kids, but wait when you are out or something like that. If they give you the WE ARE GOING TO DO WHAT WE WANT!! Than i would go outside by myself when they start to fight. I would try to talk to the parent that I'm closer, and let him, or she know how you feel, and if this is not going to help, just shout out loud, STOP FIGHTING, AND GO AND GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP, LIKE MARRIAGE CONCEALING !!!
2007-10-22 03:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit them down and tell them they are acting like children and hurting you in the meantime, tell them they need to sort it out
2007-10-22 08:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to your parents about it.
2007-10-23 03:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋