Am I just meant to be alone?

Question

I've been alone all my life..
don't even have friends... too scared...
am I just meant to be alone?
honestly I haven't had a relationship where I wasn't terrified

Answer 1

huggies hughug* :D

Answer 2

Not true.

The only reason you're alone is because you haven't taken the time to sit down and figure out what it is about a relationship and/or the person that makes you so terrified.
Once you can realize what your problem areas are, and you learn to overcome them and move forward...then you will find that you are much happier and not alone.
You can't be a hermit all your life, get out there and meet new people and take a while to figure out why you feel the way you do. There has to be some underlying reasoning for it.

Answer 3

Think of a human as a receptor. The mind gives and receives energy that is then interpreted. The interpretation leads to behavior.

When you are terrified in a relationship, the energy you send out displays it clearly and your partner becomes uncomfortable also. Why are you so terrified? Did something happen in a past relationship that has not been fully resolved yet? When you iron out issues from the past, the present becomes much easier.

Answer 4

u need to find people who share same everything with u hobbies likes dislikes stuff like that itll help u get use to being around people and help u be more out going with others just watch how u aproach the people who are like u when i need a friend i usualy find someone like me and read stuff off of them and ask them questions about for exp. i was a skater so if i see a guy id be like nice sneaks man u skate any? and then u can say more opens up a conversation after this keep with just small talk till they come talking to u on there own cause if u keep trying to be obsesive itll scare them but if they make the effort to say something it helps

Answer 5

if its a relationship you want, think about the type of person you like to be with......write it down then hide that piece of paper, and for get about it.
then make friends,
do you work.....if not get a job.....find a career that you would like to do that makes you feel good about your self...or a hobbies that take up your time....were you have to mix with other, being with people that has the same interests as you helps to make relationships....and then when you are not thinking about it someone will come along.
because you are making your self happy and learning to communicate and being open, and some body will click with you.
try it.....have fun finding friends, and finding an interesting life for your self.

Answer 6

The time may come where you will not be terrified of any type of relationship. Please don't be sad, upset, paranoid, or anxious about it. Where is your family? They should be there to love you.

By the way, no human is meant to be alone, because humans are social animals. Don't forget that ;) Hugs.

Answer 7

Dear friend,

Maybe you would like to try find friends online, or even a love for you.

I once felt like you after divorce 2 years agao. I found a great site for meeting interracial friends. We chat interracial love, and different cultures, dishes online.

I am about to date a man there. It is so great! I suggest you try, it is free to get ID there. http://www.interracialfriends.com

Answer 8

You probably have a problem called social anxiety disorder. Talk to a psychiatrist. He will be able to give you some medication to help you.

Answer 9

Who said u dont have friends? Its just an illusion which u have in ur mind...ur not alone...cheer up buddy!!

Answer 10

Open up a little. They have meds for schizophrenia

Answer 11

oh yeah.
life is so dark and so cold. every things have same color.
and no body can not help.
i hate every people and god hate me.
if you like me, no solution for this.. just killing myself.