LET YOU KNOW I DONT LIKE TO LAUGH ON A DATE AND i dont need to take PROZAC i am not depressed okay i am just numb to laughing and crying and any real feeling the last time i laughed was june 11, 4 years ago thats the night my mom died the last person i laughed with was my mother and thats how its going to stay and this my get me kicked of here but you know i DONT CARE
2007-10-21 23:45:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
showing emotions,sharing emotions,laughing - crying is something totally upto you who cares what ppl think aslong as ur okay with it then its more thn fine.
sorry for ur loss though
2007-10-21 23:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by dr.eddie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh i think you care lil miss!! Coz if you didn't care then you wouldnt take yo time and write it on the internet and letting everyone know about how you feel and why you feel like that!!!!
You care and i bet on all i got girl that you'd give anything just for a smile and that right now you got a heavy stone on your heart and you cant figure out why you are not laughing but if you'd try and open up, get new friends or spend more time with your friends and not thinking too much about the loss of your mama ps: i'm sorry about that!!
Just gotta keeep on livin' or else life isn't worth it dont you think??
2007-10-22 06:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by cherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know losing someone you really care about is not easy, but that does not mean that for the rest of your life you will be sad.Would your mother be happy to see you like this? Am sure she would want you to have a good time on your dates and to laugh and enjoy yourself.You still have your life to live, You need to LIVE life. Crying also helps relieve stress and pressure and Just cry if you feel like, i think you will feel so much better afterward.Talk to someone about how you feel to, that helps.All the best.
2007-10-22 06:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by damyna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you do'nt get kicked out,and idon't know if your mom ever told you that it takes more muscles not to laugh than to laugh,c'mon girl laughter is the best medicine. i'm sorry to here about your mom,but laughing may be a way to keep her memory alive,sure death sucks,but sooner or later we have to laugh at it,other wise we become bitter and that **** will eat a hole in ya.Think back the last time you laughed and cherish that moment,noone can take that away from you
2007-10-22 07:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by jasonbatla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, laughing or in your case not-laughing can be a habit. Force yourself to laugh more often. It will be fake at first, but after a while it will become more natural. Science shows that faking laughter has the same benefits of actual laughter anyway.
2007-10-22 06:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Philosopher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, you sound like a complete sociopath. Numb IS depressed DOOFUS. If you can't get past something 4 years ago and never want to, you ARE depressed. Get that prescription filled immediately.
As for dating, I pity the fool who even tries. You have way too much baggage...
2007-10-22 06:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you may be suffering from a form of depression, whether you want to admit it or not. And possible post traumatic stress disorder....Get help, talk to someone, ending it is not the answer and I am sure your Mom would be very sad to read this...
Good Luck!
2007-10-22 06:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but please don't take what some people give to you as answers seriously, sometimes they've got noting to do but joke around. i read you question b4, why don't you take a break for a while. quit dating for a few months and spend time with friends and just come back feeling like a new person who can't be brought down by a few jokes and bad times.
2007-10-22 06:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mother is still with you and she doesn't want you to stop laughing or living your life. She is with you in spirit. If you want her to touch you to let you know she is there, then just ask her to.
2007-10-22 06:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that you let a part of your self die 4 years ago. It doesn't have to be that way.
2007-10-22 06:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by iNsTaNt pUdDiNhEaD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋