my molther in law hates me, causes me lots of trouble while drunk and accuses me of stealing her family. My sister in law lives with her and cant stand her either, so my hubby asked her to move in with us. she is going ot, but none of us know how to tell there mum. Any ideas? my husband and sister in law are both worried for me
2007-10-21 23:17:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is a very bad decision on your husband part. he should stand up for you and protect you from his mother. It is his job to make sure his side of the family treats you good.
I feel for you because she will make your life miserable. Talk to your husband and tell him your marriage depends on him not taking his mother in. don't threaten him, just tell him the way it is. Nicely, but with conviction.
BB
2007-10-21 23:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you even associating with this woman? Stay away from her. Don't talk with her. Get a restraining or harassment order if you have to. And what is your wimpy hubby doing to help you.
Instead of "worrying" about you ... both sis-in-law and hubby need to get off their butts and defend you. And you have to do your part by staying way from the mo-in-law.
2007-10-22 06:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of the war zone between your sister in law and her mother. Let your husband interfear if your mother in law confronts you. After all this is his mother he should deal with this mess.
2007-10-23 09:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...do you really don't have any other way than taking her along with you? i think this is going to bring you another trouble. are you sure everything will be fine? i'm confused, but anyway is up to you. but if it was me, i'd never take her with me.
2007-10-22 07:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Wonderful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't your sister-in-law move somewhere else other than with you?
2007-10-22 06:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by ozinnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should rise and stamp his feet on this matter.To avoid further problems.
2007-10-22 06:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by okisput 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put my foot down and say no!! You are stepping into hell now.
2007-10-22 06:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you man should rake care of you.......not her
2007-10-22 06:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by bumblemancan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋